Have you ever loved someone you knew you couldn't have?

Was there anyone you met whether it was in real life or online that you couldn't be with and for what reason?

Yes 47
No 10
Other 1
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Comments ( 16 )
  • chained_rage

    OP's goal is too make half of IIN feel suicidally sad now :P

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  • charli.m

    Yup. But I got over it and I'm happier now than I would have been if that had worked out.

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  • Rainbowbash

    Really nice chick named none of your biz... She was pretty cute, and loved everything! Sadly, she was already in a relationship... I've had random chicks come up to me and ask me that. Now I feel terrible just from talking about this...

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  • derpyderp

    I loved someone I THOUGHT I could never have due to distance but we've found a way to solve that problem.

    I still remember a conversation where I told her there was a girl I was interested in but she was unattainable.
    She told me that I should give it a crack & go after her.
    I had to explain that RIGHT THEN, while we were on the phone together, I was going after that girl : )

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    • chained_rage

      But I'm nawt a goil :'(

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think of that more as lust and infatuation than love.

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    • postmanlover

      I agree with that, I don't get why would you love some one that obviously doesn't love you back. if they loved you back then they would make a way to be with you. (And if some one tries to be a smart arse and say I'm not one to talk, well loving some one from a different world, is another matter )

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      • RoseIsabella

        I think people overuse and misuse the word love way too much.

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  • Ellenna

    Far too often ...... I don't want to think about it really, too sad

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  • Melora

    Ironically I am in a relationship with the person I thought I could never be with. Things can change. Before that I was content to just have him as a wonderful fantasy.

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  • BlueCarrie

    Age gap. He doesn't want to date me because he thinks I'm too young. I've really loved him for a very long time. Even though we weren't really a thing. He did meant a lot to me.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    That is my whole life story.

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  • Karl355

    No , but nearly. My current gf was very hard to get , made worse by the fact she had a boyfriend she had been with for 6 years. I snatched her though :)

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    • RoseIsabella

      Don't be surprised if someone else snatches her away from you too someday.

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      • Karl355

        Their relationship was dead in the water for years. Maybe that will happen maybe it won't.that's life

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  • trytoforgetthis

    Yes. It's addictive. It's heartbreaking.

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