Have you ever loved someone that comes in and out of your life?

This is a good one. I recently broke up with a lover that did this. Each time said person came back there was a new excuse to why they left. I fell for it twice. Finally, I realized that this person will do this over and over. So, actually having self respect, I drew the line. It hurt that I had to because I truly loved this person. But, it was destroying me. Also, I started looking at the facts logically. The most important being if I allowed it, this vicious cycle would never end. I hope this post can help someone going through this. You deserve love. If you are dating someone that treats your heart like a yo yo. Do yourself a favor. Let it go. So you can find real love that nurtures you. If someone keeps leaving, they have a reason. Most of which are not good. Love yourself, and take out the trash. Kisses

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Comments ( 5 )
  • Jeaneathean

    Wise words that ring true to some of my past experiences.

    Hope you and things are good now.

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  • Thatguy777

    I know that feeling, and I'm a guy..

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  • dontgiveup:)

    Oh gosh, I needed this right now! Thanks!:)

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  • purpleflower

    I fell in love with a girl who I thought loved me back. She went away for a while and seemed to have on and off feelings for me after she returned. Finally, I realized that she is a very good liar, and she has told me that she likes to con other people. To this day I don't know if her feeling towards me were even close to genuine.

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  • XcOoKiEsX

    Im happy that you saw this. Family member has same problem. She needs to kick him to the curb. I wish she'd hear this from someone she would listen to.

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