Have you ever friendzoned anyone?
| Yes and there is no way we will be together | 135 | |
| Yes but I think that maybe I now have feelings for him/her | 29 | |
| No | 49 | |
| I am in the friendzone | 64 |
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| Yes and there is no way we will be together | 135 | |
| Yes but I think that maybe I now have feelings for him/her | 29 | |
| No | 49 | |
| I am in the friendzone | 64 |
I'm the guy who is always in the friendzone. I've also never known anyone who told me that they liked me, so I've never friendzoned anyone before.
I feel that once you have been "friendzoned", there is no way in hell of coming back from that. It's almost like a death label.
i'm the typical best friend girl.
and i have been for years.
everytime i fell in love, i was the best friend, listening to their problems finding a gf. great.
I'm the exact same as you, only the guy version of the best friend. Everytime I fell in love I got the "you're too good of a friend" excuse. I recently had to cut my best girl friend out of my life because I loved her and she friend zoned me but lead me to believe I had a chance of being with her. Here's to us one day day falling for someone who returns our feelings.
i have to admit i also friendzoned my ex best guyfriend because he was just getting to touchy und clingy, and i didn't want to hurt him.. our friendship didn't make it, because i fell in love with someone else. it really broke my heart to hurt him, but at least he didn't think he had a chance.
Sometimes its the only way, when I cut my best girl friend out as odd as it may sound I did it for her. I became a jealous and clingy type which isn't me at all, so my feelings were starting to affect our friendship. It got to a point where I ended up getting her incredibly mad on her birthday because of something I did, and she wouldn't completely forgive me. I told her everything and why I had to stop seeing her, and hoped she understood. But I don't think she does, and now I'm starting to feel like we'll never be friends again down the road :(
I have.
Reasons:
trying to get to a friend of hers
long list of sex partners (I just wanted sex)
she was with one of my friends
she wasn't good looking but were cool
LOL I fucked myself with the last one because she was good looking. I just didn't realize it until I hung out with her more. Ended up falling for her, but she got her playback. Got what I deserved I guess :(
I've had friends who fancied me, but I didn't fancy them, so we remained just friends.
I hate all this 'friendzone' crap.
I'm not going to lie, and boo me if you want, I've friendzoned a couple guy friends. I didn't want to hurt their feelings, it's just for the most part, they weren't my type, and I didn't want to fuck our friendship up. I mean, I know how it feels, but in the end, the guys that friendzoned me still stayed my very good friends. Not to mention the last time I dated someone because I didn't want to hurt them via friendzoning, I had the guy tell me he wanted to marry me after 2 days. Yeah...no.
Yes, but I have a hard time not flirting with the people I've friendzoned :P
The names have been changed, and I'm sure I've forgot some, but I tried. Oh, and I should probably mention, that they are not all the guys I've turned down, just the ones that were friends that wanted to be more than friends but I wouldn't allow it to happen.
Friend-zoned
1. Sean - Because you ate hard boiled eggs and I was 10 year old and thought they smelled like farts.
2. Paul - you were a cowboy and my best friend's older brother
3. Blaine - you tried to hard to be cool
4. Greg - you were 18 and I was only 13, never going to happen
4. Jim - you were super religious, I'm not, it would never work
5. Tommy - you have little man's disease and a massive boil on your face
6. Dino - you gave me the creeps because you were so pervy, but I kept you around because you told funny jokes
7. Paul - you almost made it out of the friends-zone, but your best friend blew it for you by acting like a hormonal asshole
8. Robert - you were too much of a coward to break free of the friend zone, so forever, there you stayed
9. Dan - just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm available for a "good time", but I was nice to you because you were a part of my friend-group.
10. Brad - you might have been able to commit to me, but you had a reputation as a ladies man
11. Aaron - you're a cool guy, but you lived with your parents (you were 24) and you actually loved it
12. Dan - you were in the friendzone, I thought you knew that, you had no right to stalk me
13. Rob - because you only washed when you thought I was paying attention to you
14. Sam - you were so introverted but I thought you were kind
15. Ryan - you were staggeringly handsome and charming to boot, but you were engaged to someone else
16. Justin - you were a nice guy, but you had an unnecessary arrogant streak. And by the way, helicopter pilots are only glorified taxi drivers.
17. Cameron - you were only 18, eleven years younger than me, it felt wrong
18. Ryan - I was in a committed relationship, you had no chance, but you were a good friend with a kind heart
19. Douglas - your wife scares the shit out of me and you have a wife; enough said, we will only be friends
20. Dan - just because we have an intellectual conversation or two, doesn't mean it's attraction
21. Robbie - you're not my type, but I think you are ok as a friend.
I've been friend-zoned myself; twice.
i friendzoned two girls and both wanted me to bang them. yeah you would call me crazy and theyre attractive but sill theyre underage and i dont plan on having a guilty conscience
I have friend-zoned many a poor boy. About five.. I make friends with meek quiet guys, but I date sarcastic arrogant geeks, so the meek ones have their little hearts broken or they try to act like someone they're not.
Oh you heartbreaker you.
So clear something up for me - what the fuck is appealing about sarcastic arrogant guys? Do you really think these people are good prospects for dating? Or is it just the confidence that gets your blood going.
I'm a very quiet guy. But I'm also a sarcastic arrogant arsehole. And quite frankly I wouldn't Friend-Zone someone with such a small brain. So heartbreaker, I'm pretty sure these quiet guys could get someone much better :)
Go fuck a flag pole.
Just because I've admitted to friend-zoning several guys does not mean I have a small brain or that I'm cold-hearted. They were and still are my best friends and I never lead them on. Judging from your harsh reaction before getting to know more of the story it seems you are projecting your anger of past personal issues.
Actually, I haven't had any friend zone problems. But I'm aware of how others can do it.
I focus my life on realistic based judgement. I notice things about people. To which they are to scared to understand or change.
I don't believe I'm perfect. I never will be. But I'd rather not follow a path that I can't see clearly.
People are too unaware of their true selves. They don't bother to understand why they live their life or what they can do to make it better.
We are all human, But living off that statement means nothing.
I "troll" this site because I'm giving my view on the subjects. Maybe they are harsh, or people don't understand them properly.
If people bothered to actually read them in a different understanding then they will understand what I say.
I agree people live day by day obliviously and I appreciate and seek out those that are more well-rounded,open-minded, and aware. Aside from you defending my accusation of projection, you avoided the topic completely. There is nothing wrong with friend-zoning as long as you haven't lead the person on and you have been completely honest with them from the get-go.
About 10 years ago I friendzoned a guy because he had very bad acne on his face (shallow of me I know!). 10 years later his skin is clear & he's extremely good looking (model looks). He has a very good job and a fiance.
i feel bad because i've never been in the friendzone but i've put people in the friendzone. it's hard because if you don't like someone you can't date them and dump them becasue that would hurt a whole lot more. so you have to put them in the friendzone.
Usually when a girl wants to be friends its so that she can get boned. However, I'm kinda old fashioned and would rather get to know her instead of going straight to the hooplah.
I friendzoned my friend because I knew it would never work out between us :/
I really wish some guys wouldn't fall for me so we could just be friends. It makes ME feel awkward cause I have to make sure I don't do or say anything that makes them think I'm interested.
Not that I know of. I've become friends with girls I was romantically involved with, and I've had to reject girls who were interested in me, but I'm not really comfortable with becoming very close friend with people I know are into me and unrequited. I also don't think I've ever discovered that a friend liked me romantically without having ANY suspicions beforehand.
I've been friendzoned my fair share of times though. Sad panda. I suppose the (seemingly) disproportionate girl-on-guy friendzoning makes sense though - men tend to pursue. Sometimes I wish women took more of an active role in courtship, but I'm not sure what effect that would have.
Straight men and straight woman cant be friends. Its impossible without one of them getting massively emotionally hurt or a relationship developing, most likely one getting really hurt.
When someone gets "friendzoned" its really just the person saying "I am not attracted enough to you to actually consider a serious relationship with you"
But what they say is "I value you too much as my friend".
Yes, I've recently done it to someone. I done it to them because they were trying to fool around with multiple guys (relationships etc) so I thought "You want to do that to be people, I want to do that to people that does it to others for no reason". So now, she's friendzoned, and I constantly mess with her head to make her think she can be with me, then make it known that I would never be with her, then keep repeating.