Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a friend of the same sex?

As a straight person, have you ever felt a strong sexual attraction to a friend or close friend of the same sex? As in having urges and thoughts about just plain out making love to your friend.

Important!

Please, only answer if you consider yourself a mostly straight person. Otherwise, it would beat the purpose if you're only/mostly attracted to the same sex.

If you have been attracted to the same sex, you must have known the person enough to call him/her a friend and not have felt this way about the person before. As in, you should have been friends/close friends without the sexual attraction.

It doesn't matter if you've felt that way only once a long time ago, if you had that feeling ever, it's a yes. If you've never felt that way or can't recall ever feeling that way, it's a no. No maybes.

Please, answer honestly. Remember this is anonymous and out of curiosity.

I'm a male; Yes, I have. 274
I'm a male; No, I haven't 28
I'm a female; Yes, I have. 445
I'm a female; No, I haven't. 27
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  • Littledreamer

    Lol story of my life. I am 100% straight. I met this girl a yet ago and with I'm a few days of hangin out alot I started feeling attracted to her in a way of "I want to be around her". If people were car pooling I would want to be with her. If we were sitting I'd wanna sit next to her. We are both dancers and when ever she'd dance I'd only watch her and it made me feel so happy and I loved just being around her. I very quickly would get aroused by her. If we made we contact. When I'd see her dance. Her laugh. Her smile. Everything! The mentioning of her name would get my attention instantly. She was on my mind soooo much. It wasn't obessive and she never knew. No one could tell. I fell in love with her and it was so hard because she was the only girl inte world I wanted. I'm straight so I wanted a guy. But when it came to her I would choose her over any guy in the whole wide world. I loved her freckles andjer brown eye. Plus she was curvy and had an amazing ass. I would think about making love with her even. I wanted her and I would give up everything to make her happy. Eventually I made myself get over her though I will allways have a special place in my heart for her.
    We were so close. I told her everything. She ended up turning her back on me for stupid shit that had nothing to do withher and didn't effect her at all. We got in sooo many fights and we said horrible things to each other :/ I tried so hard to understand why she was acting that way. As our friendship was about to be lost I told her why I cared so much and it was because I use to be in love with her.
    She talks so much shit about me and tells everyone I am the biggest slut she knows and that I have stds and shit. Lol I can't believe what Happend with us. All I know is I still have feelings for her somewhere deep deep deeeppp in my heart. That's true love.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Yes, I'm not gay but something about other light skinned white girls who have big round booty and lean natural figures otherwise. I dunno, maybe it's because my behind is more tight and muscular or whatever. I only feel this way about my closest girlfriends and I don't tell anyone about it and certainly not my friends. I did kiss my one friend on the mouth on two occasions when I was about 19 or 20; we were both drunk. I've had quasi experimental experiences when I was in college but I don't want to go the way. I did that only once and didn't like it.

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  • KutAcross

    Hell, I must be psyching myself out. I love woman MUCH MUCH MORE, but im always desperate enough for anyone

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  • KutAcross

    I'm a dude, and will only date women, but I cant help but get a light headed feeling aroung my best friend. He makes me confused. I want to be around him and when Im not my heart hurts. A girl tried to force me to ask him out once, and he makes jokes about it all the time now, and refuses to hang out ' as much' because he knows how much I feel for him

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  • MmmHmm

    Currently going through this. And what's made it worse is that I had a deep conversation about sex and relationships with him recently. It's made me just know what he thinks and what he's experienced, which makes me want to experience those things with him? I don't know. I definitely know I don't want to be in a relationship with him--he's just a friend. But I do find him attractive and wouldn't mind fooling around just to feel good, y'know?

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  • I don't know about sexually but I had a weird little crush on a best friend of mine a while back.

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  • Cordelia

    Oh, yeah. I had a steamy dream about a shower session with a girlfriend.

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  • Sailor_Cosmos

    I see my friends as family therefore I have never found them attractive.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    No

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  • kinklu

    I guess I'm hard wired to be straight as a ramrod (Pun intended). I can't even understand this urge. Women, on the other hand, drive me mad with desire.

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    • DecafeinatedCaffeinePill

      Don't worry. Not all of us are perfect :P

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