Have you ever dated some one just because they like you?

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I've done it. Actually so far I've only dated one boy because he liked me. I've liked people before but I was always to shy to tell them I did. And two years after I dated this one boy, I talked to a few people who have either dated some one when they didn't like them but the person they dated liked them or the other way around, so its not that uncommon but I want to read what the results on this post.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes but it turned out it was a ruse to get close to my brother heheh.

    She was so obsessed with going to my house.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I have dated someone out of sympathy once and it was not a nice experience.

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  • breezypeasey
    11 years ago

    Yes! I dated this girl online for 3 months I started fooling around with this local girl and I fell for her. I tried to tell the other girl it was over with the local sitting on my bed. She wouldn't take it! I was so. Mad I slammed my head into the wall and blacked out I woke a few minutes later in a pool of blood and started freaking out the local just sat there petting my cat while I'm freaking out my roommate fixed me up and the local left shortly after. I made a decision to call the online girl who even after I was unfaithful took me back and loved me unconditionally. A few weeks later I bought her a ticket to come live with me. It was fuckin hell for 2 years. I couldn't love her. Go with your gut. Now I know instantly whether she's a girl id like to wake up next to. Sometimes its disguised but instincts are everything friends are always good

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    • welkinson
      11 years ago

      You have very random placements of periods. Idk. I guess with the boy I dated, I just wanted to know how it felt to kiss so i let him kiss me on the lips because i wanted to know how it felt but i didn't really wanna date him. Then i felt like he wasnt going to let me not date him and he wasnt really seeming to take no for an answer. i never told him i had a crush on him. i told him a couple times before we dated that i didn't have a crush on him but i kissed him on the lips when he leaned to kiss me. a couple weeks later, me and his friend were cuddling. he asked if i had a crush on him. i told him no and i didn't have a crush on him. when he asked if i had a crush on himself, i said no and meant it. a couple days later, he broke up with me, and for some reason i felt really upset for like a day afterwards. we only dated for 2 weeks, a shorter amount of time than how long he tried to get me to say i was dating him.

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      • breezypeasey
        11 years ago

        Yea my phone likes to throw in some periods here and there. But seriously you should look into just a cuddle buddy not a fuck buddy but someone you can lay with and gently tease your skin and kiss your finger tips. You don't need to be in love or even like them in that way. Its all about comfort and its something you both deserve.

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        • welkinson
          11 years ago

          Yeah. All I've ever done with the boy I dated just because he liked me was kiss and cuddle. I'm almost 19 years old and i've never fucked. I am a girl and I have a friend who's a boy who likes to cuddle me now. I don't feel like I have a crush on him but when he holds me, it really turns me on. When my ex held me and kissed me, I don't remember feeling turned on.

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          • breezypeasey
            11 years ago

            You have a deep amazing connection don't ruin that beautiful feeling with sex. It will only complicate things. My best friend and I cuddle and she always tells me I make her feel sexy which is an amazing feeling but I will never fool around with her. She's the love of my life but sex will make us estranged. Hold onto your friend / cuddle buddy sex is amazing but with someone your truly madly deeply in love with. Just keep waiting and allow him to make you feel sexy

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            • welkinson
              11 years ago

              Yeah. Its weird. This boy who likes to cuddle me now says that he finds me attractive but that he is not sexually attracted to me. But as of a few weeks ago, he has started to cuddle with me whenever we are near eachother. He is 12 years older than me. The way he describes how he feels about me is pretty much the same as I feel about him except I think once he cuddles me, I become sexually attracted.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Yes, for almost a year. It was awful.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I date people for easy sex and servitude, but I don't tell them that obviously.

    So yes, in a way I suppose.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I think so, yeah. Although I know it's traditional for the man to make a move, most of my relationships have started as a kind of mutual thing or even when the woman made a move. I'm usually so flattered, I give people a chance. More often than not I end up liking them.

    Actually, in retrospect, there were some people who really liked me and who I'd never date. So it's not a hard or fast rule, or anything.

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