Have you ever cheated on your partner
Have you ever cheated on your significant other?
| Yes and I got away with it | 37 | |
| Yes but I got caught | 5 | |
| Yes but I admitted it to them | 17 | |
| Not yet | 17 | |
| No | 96 |
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Corleone
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I have, and I feel pretty bad about it.
I used my left hand yesterday just to switch things up. Hopefully my right will never find out about it.
The guilt is a killer.
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stupid_username
it feels like someone stabbed ure heart with a rusty lawnmower blade, then cuts it out and burns it if u really,really,really are in love. BTW im NOT emo
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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
No. I'll never cheat on my man.
Got no reason to. He satisfies me. ;)
I mean sure i'll rub one out on my own sometimes but... that's just between me and my hand ;)
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deb
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equanimity
No.
If you don't want to be with someone anymore, break up with them, then be with the person you want to be with.
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Dazzie
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[Old Memory]
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SoccerStud88
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NeonLighterz
well I would choose a bunch of those.
I dated 2 guys at the same time. they ended up finding out about each other.
then I dated guy number 3, but cheated on him with guy number 1.
Guy number 2 was my kiss buddy.Eh, it's life.
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graphic_nature
Each person has a different definition of cheating.
Are we talking strictly sex? Text messaging dirty pics? Emotionally invested in someone else with no sex? A kiss? A kiss on cheek? Each person draws the line at a different area.
In any case no I haven't cheated, I think it's weak, but I have been cheated on before, and that sucked.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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chaotic_order
I think cheating is sexual or emotional attachment. Saying (and meaning) that you love someone romantically who is not your partner is as much cheating as having sex with someone outside of the relationship without your partners consent. But perhaps that is because I value the emotional intimacy in our relationship even more than the physical.
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[Old Memory]
I haven't.
I am a firm believer in Karma. I've had opportunities with friends GF's and married co-workers but i've remained strong lol although sometimes I do regret not being a typical guy and going for it.
...maybe next time.
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frankiestrange
I've been cheated on a few times, and been the cheatee (Don't really know what you'd call it XD The person who the guy is cheating with) I'm not proud of it. I wouldn't ever cheat, but to be honest, I've seen how easily it can happen. Twice now, each a different guy, who was already in a relationship, had cheated on their girlfriend for me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a slut, and I didn't want it to happen, nor did I condone it, but I couldn't really stop it because my feelings were too strong. Oooh, so many mistakes...
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Darkoil
I have done, sex doesn't mean anything to me though so I never really gave it much thought.
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taciturn
If you kiss someone to whom you aren't at all attracted, is that cheating?
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dom180
If you were not attracted to them, why in hell would you want to cheat on your partner with them?! If you are going to cheat, at least cheat with someone you are attracted to. If you tried to pull that as an excuse, your partner would think you are lying anyway which would just make it worse.
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taciturn
Wait, it makes it better if there's actually attraction behind the kiss? What sort of twisted logic is that? It's not an excuse, it's true, and luckily my girlfriend trusted me more than you do, random stranger. I was drunk at a party, and a gay guy was incessantly hitting on me. I'm neither homophobic nor good with confrontation, so I just kept politely declining and telling him I had a girlfriend. After a while, I gave him a pity kiss because I started to feel sorry for him. I'm straight, and didn't find him attractive or handsome.
So back to my original question, which was never answered, is that cheating? I'm not trying to justify what I did, because I seriously regret it. I just didn't really consider it cheating because there was no romantic incentive behind it. To me it felt as if I was giving him a high five or kissing a relative, but it's just that touching lips is such a loaded symbol that we can't possibly consider it outside the context of romance.
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dom180
I never said it was any better or worse, just a waste.
And now that you've taken the time to explain, I think what you did was fine. Because of the whole gay thing, obviously then your partner would be more certain that you were truthful after all. Although it would have been better if you just said "no" and walked away from him.
Really though, we cannot answer half a story. Now that you have told what I presume is the whole story, take that as my opinion.
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