Have you ever cheated before in a relationship?

Just curious. I got super drunk and ended up making out with a guy once, but it meant absolutely nothing... and the worst part is, the next morning I woke up, and thought my BF was at the party and I had kissed my bf.

Yes (more than once) 21
Yes, but it only happened once 11
No, but I almost did 9
Definitely NOT! 27
Never been in a Relationship... 16
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  • dom180

    Next time, don't get super drunk at a party.

    And no, I never have.

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  • Thorolf

    I don't and haven't. Hopefully I never do.

    (if I do become a cheater, please someone come hunt me down. That's not the person I wanna be.)

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    • AB1234

      AMEN!!!!

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  • NothingxCrazy

    I was once a weak girl who fell for people much too easily. Luckily it never turned into me cheating. Close, but no bananas.

    I would never even think about cheating on someone these days. It's happened to me more times than not.

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  • AB1234

    I date a lot, but casually--meaning guys know up front I just want to hang out. I always pay my own way, and I am totally cool doing stuff the guy wants to do, like rock climbing, a concert, camping with friends, paragliding in the early spring... But it never fails that as soon as I start a relationship, dudes are trying to get into my pants extra fierce. I have a very strict no cheating policy. I'd feel like crap if someone I liked and trusted did that to me, so I won't do it to anyone else. If I'm ever that close to cheating, I'll end my relationship--even though I don't see myself ever ending a relationship because I want to cheat.

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    • deepdankstickygoo

      ......Paragliding.....what are you?

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      • AB1234

        What do you mean "what..."? I'm just the average college sophomore whose folks happen to live in San Diego. PG is super popular there--perfect updrafts for light sailing. And trust me, I'm from a middle-class family, but we can always afford a season of PG. My dad even designs some of his own canopies. Ever been?

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        • deepdankstickygoo

          Haha no. I don't want to end up falling to a horrible and most likely drawn out and painful death.

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          • AB1234

            Deeeeeep! OK, next summer you're on the West Coast, you gotta join me and my peeps. We'll take ya on a nice, easy, soft descent with the best views you can get in SoCal. Trust me, one trip and you'll be hooked for life!!

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  • boston12

    yes ive cheated before. it was a long distance relationship and i had trustissues so i justified my actions believing he would b cheatn on me too. stupid really.

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  • dappled

    Yes, just the once. Not proud of it.

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  • PapzBSlim

    Unfortunately I have.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah. I wanted to be with someone else and my boyfriend at the time, who is now up on serious assault charges and has a history of violent behavior, scared me shitless and I was afraid to break up with him. He never touched me but he would break things and lose his temper and that was enough for me, so I saw someone else and convinced him to break up with ME. Totally was unjustified however, I didn't take shit seriously in High School.

    There was another instance but I'm too out of it to type it. The relationship was doomed to begin with and I didn't want to leave the guy because he too, was mental.

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  • Avant-Garde

    No, I haven't.

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