Have you ever been coerced into having sex?
Vote: Have you ever been coerced into having sex?
Comment: How were you coerced? Do you consider what happened to you to be rape?
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thegypsysailor
Ha ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ho. Nope. No one has ever wanted to have sex with me that badly. rotflmao, ho, ho, ho.
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cumm_guzzlah
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anti-hero
She drug a happy meal on a string and bashed me over the head with a wiffle ball bat and threw me on my racecar bed and did evil things to me. I was 24.
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LaBellesima
Yes:/
Its something people dont talk about. Personally im ashamed to even talk about it
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Darkoil
I've kinda been raped but it's like a good story to tell people rather than a bad experience.
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Darkoil
Well I passed out at a party upstairs and some girl who I had been kissing earlier came upstairs, undressed me and then started to ride me, I woke up half way through really confused and to top it off someone was filming or taking pictures of it, if it was the other way around I'm sure a girl would cry rape but I've never really considered it to be.
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Anonymous Post Author
That's what a lot of male "rape victims" say. They shrug it off. Why do you think that is? (serious)
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captblood44
for one thing, part of rape is when one party is enjoying and the other party is not enjoying and is not a willing participate. if you woke up and someone was riding you and you decided to join in and enjoy, is it rape at that point? if it still is rape and you enjoyed it, do you then enjoy rape?
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iEatZombies_
I was coerced and I don't consider it rape. I consider it sexual assault.
I did it because I was trying to protect my (at the time) 10 year old brother.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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iEatZombies_
I was sleeping on the living room floor with my brother at my mom's bf's house. The bf's friend lied next to me while I was asleep and started fondling me. I woke up and said no, but he wasn't going to stop. I didn't want to wake my brother and traumatize him, he'd already been through a lot. I told the guy to go to the bathroom with me, where I faked a seizure soon after he started in hopes that he would get freaked out. It worked and he stopped.
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Anonymous Post Author
If the guy doesn't realize he's pushing it into assault territory, how is this supposed to stop? I think that's a big issue with rape and sexual assault...a LOT of the perpetrators literally have no clue they are assaulting or raping someone! And a ton of victims don't see themselves as victims for the same reasons. I totally understand your reluctance to speak up though. It's a real problem.
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poon__jabber
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"Comment: How were you coerced? Do you consider what happened to you to be rape?"
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[Old Memory]
Woman that knew someone I knew that would tell them something I didn't want them knowing. I was somewhat drunk at the time. I'm sure I could of gotten out of it if I was sober. I don't consider it rape.
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Anonymous Post Author
Drunk or not, you still had a secret you didn't want revealed. It looks like you're trying to blame alcohol and not your own bad decisions. How would being sober have any impact on the original secret you were hiding?
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shuggy-chan
Not yet, but with feedback from my lastest profile pic im begining to worry
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shuggy-chan
im not gonna lie, it really wasnt the case for a long time
But thanks buddy your not a bad piece of man meat yourself. As you get older it seems that we all start evening out more in terms of looks
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quai
It's very true. Some throwback could find you attractive, and then discover a little about what you are actually like. Not what you look like, of course, but about the things you do to people.
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Nokiot9
I get coerced into sex every time I have it I'm pretty sure lol. What the hell does that even mean? When someone touches you and kisses you a certain way they are coercing u to do the same and more.. Do u mean like paid? Or bribed or blackmailed? Lol sort of. My ex gf told me she was gonna tell my parent I was doing drugs of I didn't have sex with her, little did she know I already told them. So I pretended to get mad and grudgingly accept.
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Nokiot9
I'm pretty sure I've been drugged before. This one time I was at one of the gay bars and this really hot guy bought me a drink and, stupidly, I took it without seeing the bartender make it. Woke up at his house the next afternoon. I still can't remember a lot of what happened that night and I NEVER black out when I drink. No matter how much I drink I can always remember what I did how I got somewhere. I hadn't been fucked. I'd definitely have known but I'm pretty sure I'm the one that did the fucking.... Idk... Still hazy.
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Anonymous Post Author
My stories:
I got invited out with who I thought were friends. We get out to a campsite and after a little while I am confronted by several males who tell me I am not getting a ride home unless I fuck at least one of them. I am 15, terrified of my parents and breaking curfew so I reluctantly choose one to have sex with. They took me home but later on his girlfriend heard he cheated and....haha...I get harassed for it. I got coerced into it, had NO idea he had a girlfriend and now I get crap for what happened. Huh.
I became a drug addict for a time and got coerced but that was all my own choice. I can't consider it assault or rape because I am pretty sure I could've backed out without harm but those men knew they were taking advantage of my position.
I've been straight up forcibly raped before as well.
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wistfulmaiden
I was once coerced into making out/oral sex with a guy at a party where there were no other girls and my boyfriend was passed out drunk. I was so mad he put me in a situation like that I kind of agreed to let one of the guys mess around with me. I didn't really want to but I couldn't drive his car home because I didn't know how to drive stick shift.
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disthing
How were you coerced into making out/having oral sex with a guy, out of curiosity?
"I was so mad he put me in a situation like that I kind of agreed to let one of the guys mess around with me."
Because that makes it sound like you weren't coerced :/
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wistfulmaiden
My boyfriend took me to a party and didn't tell me there were only drunk guys...I think they might have drugged our drinks because he passed out and I felt really weird/sleepy. One of the guys carried me upstairs and put me on a bed, he did oral on me while I was barely conscious.
I didn't protest because I knew I wasn't able to drive home and I was scared he would harm me if I refused. I didn't know any of them.
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shuggy-chan
Normally i would make a bad joke about you shoulda tried to drive the stick shift with your mouth, but this story made me Low-key pissed. Guys like that make me ashamed of my gender.
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charli.m
The fucks your problem?
Of all tge misogynistic cunts on this site, you choose to harpoon someone who makes jokes?
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wistfulmaiden
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Montman56
I was introduced to sex by an over 60s male when I was 7. He masturbated and sucked me until I was 14. This was wonderful , and i enjoyed everything we did together. I feel it's normal and just good sex education.
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