Have/ would you ever cheat on someone?

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When answering if you would cheat keep in mind you are not getting what you need at home whether physically, emotionally or both from your significant other e.g. you have some grounds to cheat but it would still be wrong to do so.

Also please tell me what made you cheat if you have in the comments.

I am a man and have cheated on my wife, GF or BF 44
I am a man and would cheated on my wife or GF or BF 14
I am a woman and have cheated on my husband or BF or GF 43
I am a woman and would cheated on my husband or BF or GF 9
Other (Add a comment) 48
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  • envy_wrath
    13 years ago | pl

    NEVER

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    • Taniquetil
      13 years ago

      Never have never will, if youre not happy talk to them, if you cant resolve it break up. cheating is inexcusable and can seriously damage the other persons emotional state, remember that person is someone whose emotional state you still do or may once have cared very much for.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I have cheated once, on someone who was perfect for me. I did it because I wanted a cowardly way to end the relationship, as I was scared of committing to someone who genuinely was right for me. It's perhaps my biggest regret.

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  • shag776
    12 years ago

    Cheating is a betrayal and should be outlawed.

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  • belo.moth
    13 years ago

    never !!

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  • radish
    13 years ago

    I had two opportunities to cheat on my ex with someone that I have wanted to be with since I was an 18 year old girl. Both times I had this guy there, available to me and I turned him away, unable to go through with it due to the love and "loyalty" to my partner. That very partner just walked out of my life last year, after living together for 5 years and said he sees his life going in a different direction. That person from my past is now very serious about his current partner and I missed my opportunity to fulfill something I've always wanted. I don't condone cheating, not at all. It's toxic, but the desire is most certainly human. I do have to admit though, that as soon as my partner broke my heart, I thought to myself..."I regret that I didn't sleep with ... while I had either of those chances" -- knowing what I know now about how this relationship of mine ended up. Just saying...

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  • ModelMayhem91
    13 years ago

    My BF is the best as far as BF's go but I am greedy I want a BFF and BF...so I've hooked up with a BI sexual friend a few times. I'm not leaving my BF so I guess that makes me selfish.

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  • Crunchy_taco
    13 years ago

    I would chest on them if I'm feeling neglected. And I am so, I'm kind of cheating on her.

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  • belbel000
    12 years ago

    never will, that is just wrong.

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  • tugchug
    12 years ago

    They started itfirst

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  • catywompus
    12 years ago

    Never have. Never will. Its against my Meligion.

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    i dont like cheating. I'd imagine it feels horrible.

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  • letsgetiton623
    12 years ago

    I did once and felt horrible afterwards. Im never gonna put a girl through that kind of emotional pain again

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  • plaiddancer
    12 years ago

    It's the worst feeling ever when you find out. No, I would never cheat.

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  • VikingWolf
    12 years ago

    I would never!
    First: It would be a personal disgrace. I like to try and live with some form of ethics and honor. to act that way is dishonorable.

    Second: It is a most hurtful betrayal of the one you love. Nothing is more cruel. I think if one party isn't interested they ought to at least suck it u0p, get up the gumption and tell the other they aren't interested.

    Third: It is lying. And Lying is a dishonor. Honesty is integrity and when a person has nothing else, they at least can still have their integrity.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    cheating isnt right but the thing i dont like is when you sometimes think to yourself has my boyfriend ever cheated on me thats what im scared of and i need advise, i even had a dream of my boyfriend having sexual intercourse with someone ive never seen before.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yeah. on you

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  • technicallyhuman
    13 years ago

    never done it, never will. i don't get enough women to cheat anyway.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    12 years ago

    Unfortunatley due to alcohol i've inadvertantly cheated on a few occasions. I've toned down a bit now though.

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    • shag776
      12 years ago

      Alcohol is never an excuse for anything.

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  • theendofsorrow
    13 years ago

    Yes, I did and I'm not sure if I regret it yet..It's still in the process. It's with an ex of mine, but you see, he's 3x better than my current one.

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    • theendofsorrow
      13 years ago

      Oh and don't go lecturing me here. I'm not happy about what has happened and I certainly think it's wrong, but nothing serious has happened yet so it still isn't so bad. Just a kiss here, a kiss there, spending time with him and that's about it. It's horrible, don't get me wrong, but not as horrible as the typical cheater..

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  • CockyCaitlain
    13 years ago

    Ok i would NOT cheat on him if he is ideal for me and sexy but if he was a nerd/geek i would cheat on him for being so nerdy wouldnt you if he was a nerd tell me would you cheat?

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    • Taniquetil
      13 years ago

      well dont go out with him then.....

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