Have to concentrate on my studies

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Someone has been courting me since last semester,I dont know if he's serious but He's been my crush since I transferred at that school last sem, he's from a different course, I always smile everytime I see him until he ask me if he can court me?Even though he dont really know me, I never said yes but everytime he sees me he always shows a special attention, and it really brightens up my day I'm a shy and quiet type of girl and I've never had a boyfriend yet cause my parents are not allowing me and I want to concentrate on my studies I dont know what to do cause I'm always daydreaming about me and him together and its affecting my studies and work as a student assistant, so I tried to ignore him. Even though its breaking my heart into pieces.
The problem now is that last night in our acquaintance party, at first he was smiling at me and then he calls my name, I dont know how to react so I just ignored him, at the latter part of the party at the sweet dance I'm waiting for him to ask me until someone else ask me to dance I dont want that guy to get embarrassed since that guy was also the star of the night, so I dance with that guy, and exactly after he saw us she ask the Ms.Campus to dance with him, and damn it hurts a lot seeing them holding each other's hand,
At the end of the party I was outside the coliseum door and I saw him inside, He looked at me for a second and then he turned his attention to something else. It really ruined my whole night.And for these past few days I've been crying everyday, and its affecting my studies again. I'm afraid to see him again with some other girl,(at that night he was also flirting with some one else) I cant take to see that it feels like dying please help me.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    This sounds like High School Musical where he is Troy and you are Gabriella.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    Easiest way to forget him is to find someone else or try being friends with him and hopefully things will develop from there

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  • iceheart
    13 years ago

    It seems like he likes every pretty girl that he sees, it hurts cause I think I'm already obsessed w/ him, and I cant help thinking of him. Although I already want to forget him . I think he really chose to stop wasting his time. and I dont know how to accept that cause until now everytime I get to see him I'm still losing my mind.

    please tell me how am I going to forget him.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    Talk to him and explain your situation, you can be friends and if it works out, you can start to date. Your parents don't need to know everything. If u find it hard to talk him about this then a writing him a letter is a good step. He asked you to court him so he obviously likes you and it sounds like he only danced with the other girl to make you jealous! Goodluck

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you missed your chance. From the outside perspective it looks like you are completely uninterested in him and if that is what he thought, then he probably chose to stop wasting his time.
    Neither of you will know whats up unless you actually talk to each other.

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