Have been sexually active for 3 years, no orgasm?

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Ive been with 2 different guys in the last 2 years, and have had sex with both (dont judge, the first was a serious, long relationship, and this one is serious too.) I haven't had an orgasm once though...the first guy was a tiny bit "bigger" but he and i were each others firsts, so we were kind of learning. but the guy im with now, is a little older and actually knows what hes doing!haha. but i still cant orgasm no matter what....ive taken tips offline and everything and nothing works! help please! :(

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  • dan_d8b_dbline
    13 years ago

    well you need to help your man out even if he "knows what he's doing." And the female orgasm is very VERY mentally orientated. So in order for you to have one you have to be very very relaxed. and you have to just let loose. In fact a study was done on females orgasming and they found that females brainwaves flatline during orgasm. As in their minds go entirely blank. Only the pleaure center is fucntioning at all during this time. So if you are thinking and worring about having an orgasm. You are overloading your brain so there is no way for you to orgasm. So just dont think about it, relax and just enjoy your man, spend plenty of time on foreplay and just make sure he takes his time and just enjoy each other. Eventually you will find something you enjoy that helps you reach climax

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    finger your clit while he fucks you, might be the only way

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    For most women an orgasm is not an easy thing. But you shouldn't start having sex with aim of getting an orgasm. It stresses you and prevents you from relaxing your mind which is one of the keys to the female orgasm. Also try some foreplay too.

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