Have anyone ever tried to ruin your life....please read all this means

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a lot to me.

I had a guy friend for 8 years and he was gay he liked me,but i told him i don't like you like that only as a friend.

then i realize all he wanted from me is to have sex with me.and because i did't he try everything he can to ruin my life.

i was a good friend to him shared personal things even emotional one's then he expolited me to everyone i knew in my life.

about everything,i had low self esteem,suicidal thoughs,never had a education are a job are a girlfriend,and i'm 26 male now.and how i feel bad about all of that.

he would spy on me and remember everything i say to him so he brag it to others and when he do other's treat me the same way like i'm a horrible person.

i have always lived with my mother and father and never had a job.

i find it hard to be happy.others have tried to help me but i have personal issues that he was trying to dig in to.he was finding out i had self esteem problems and try to even brake my self esteem even futher down so i could kill my self.

but at the same time i don't bother no one.i don't fight i don't think that i'm better i don't cause problems i'm truthful.honest and loveing person.

is this a reason to hate me.i don't think so.and now everyone else that he talk to end up hateing me the same way with out really knowing me.my family and my friends and people i don't know

he said to me quote,don't you know i try to remember everything you say. and also quote,i know everything about you everything and you know nothing about me.its like he trying to make are relationship a battle.

should i warn the community about this guy at all.

this world is so sick.how can someone acknolege another person pain and use it against them.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Why don't you just cut him off from your life? 'Unfriend' him, block him, ignore him - whatever it is you have to do to protect yourself go do it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      he keep comeing back and keep stalking me,its like he's obessed with me. i cant just tell him to leave hell be back in like 4 month's. and i dont want to have him drive me crazy cause that's what he want.he try useing fake profiles to connect with me on facebook,and i know it's him cause there's no pic's.and he once use a friend pic to make his profile so i could think it was his friend.

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  • megadriver
    9 years ago

    Let me get it straight... Cause you didn't have sex with a gay guy that was your friend, he is doing everything to ruin your life?! And from what I'm getting, you are not homosexual. Yet he still "wants his way"...

    What a prick! Confront the guy. Tell him to back off. To make like a tree and leave! Threaten him. Cut all ties with him and notify your friends of the situation. You can't just sit there and let someone fuck up your life cause you didn't have sex with them!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      thank you so much cause that's my whole point of what im trying to say.

      to be honest he does in a con way to make sure i don't find out.but i notice sign's in people.

      and also i dont think i have the gut's to confront him i'm a cowared,

      but thank you so much for your hospitality it means a lot to me.and i have got rid him.im just hopeing he dont come back.

      sorry for the bad spelling

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    just people that know me.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Where did you meet this creep?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      blackplanet.com years ago when i was like 16-17yr when i frist meet him

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      blackplanet.com years ago

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It sounds like this guy has some problems. I recommend not hanging out around him and letting people know if he lies about you. It's not normal for him to act like this.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      i use to post on the internet on yahoo answer's and he got my email and started to send it to people and then everyone knew about my personal questions.but that was be for i knew he was trying to ruin my life that was like 3 years ago.... and all the people that did knew told me nothing about it just kept it from me even my family and my mom and dad.

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