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There's this guy I'm soooo crushing on and a lot of my friends have mentioned he's always looking at me when we're in the same place. He goes to this bar almost every weekend and I'm thinking if I see him there I'd say hi and maybe we can talk or whatever. Will that freak him out? What is he gonna think?
i think i speak for a lot of guys when i say we enjoy when a girl approaches us rather than us having to make the first move. so do it, it wont freak him out and if he has any interest in you he'll appreciate you making the first move
Personally, I would love it if a girl came up to me first. I kind of think it's "the guys job", but it's a job many of us don't want, lol.
A lot of guys are nervous, or low confidence, etc and don't excel in approaching women. What I would tell to a guy is that "the worst she can say is no", and that that's a real possibility. However with a woman approaching a guy that's still the worse that could happen, but I think your chances of "success" will be much higher.
yeah but he didn’t respond to my dms after a small conversation so I stopped messaging him, it felt a little awkward
Sure, talk to anyone first and you’re really cool!
Confess your feelings to guy and you become some sort of monster, or incurable disease. Or that’s what happened to me anyway.
Baby i soooooo agree with you omg ur so lucky u should totes ask this guy out. Omg that would be liek soooo adorbs girl
Guys like when girls come to them first. It makes things so much easier. You could even add him on facebook or something and like one of his pictures first and then talk to him. Thatll send the message
I say go for it! He's not going to be weirded out by you starting a conversation with him. I've personally never known of a guy who felt that a woman pursuing them first was weird.
What have you got to lose? If he's too shy to approach you and neither of you ever talk to each other, you will definitely not have your chance then, so take your shot while you have the chance!
No, but I started too long at the back of a guy's head because I thought his hair was interesting. He noticed me, twice. I fuckong crunge when I think about it to this day.