Have a crush but to scared to tell her, nomral?

okay! i have a crush on a girl. she looks quite shy. we were classmates before and 4 years later i see her working at a store. she did not remember me but i recognized her face. i keep going back to the store because i like to see her but get somewhat nervous when i am in front of her. i noticed she smiles when she sees me but then when I am about to pay stuff she does it real quick and kinda avoids eye contact. she does a little eye contact not that much. should i just go ahead and tell her that i like her and move on with my life?

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  • Bud rambles but what he said is true once he got around to it. Ask her for a date. If she says no at least you know where you stand.

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  • Fear:

    It is the absolute worst thing in life and I believe the hardest thing to overcome. In my life, I passed a class that was far more difficult than it should have been and fought like hell to get a degree. So why for me is it so damn hard to get up to look for work.

    The reason is fear and I know this. I know deep down that if I do nothing, I will get the same exact answer as a no toward a job and I really need something. I am afraid to put myself out there and afraid to do what I worked so god damn hard to accomplish.

    I guess everyone is afraid of some things deep down and although I have overcome some fears in my life, the fear of failure still overcomes me and I struggle on it sometimes. I don't want to try because I know that if I do and fail I did all of that hard work for nothing which is odd because hard work does not scare me. I think you are the same as I am and just afraid of that "NO" answer.

    I said this in this post but I am saying it again for myself as well as for you, god knows I need it. IF YOU DO NOT AT LEAST TRY OR ASK, YOU WILL GET THE EXACT SAME ANSWER AS IF YOU DO NOTHING BUT A YES ANSWER CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING.

    Now if you excuse me, I have to fax my resume tonight.

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  • ~L~

    Just go for it, she wont mind.

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  • ven067

    I have this same problem, sort of..

    but the thing to do is first, talk to her, not just go into the store where she works, look at her, buy something, then leave.
    Start talk to her about something, like for example, since u know her (sort of) say somethign like, "hey i dont know if you remember me but i'm (ur name) and i used to be in ur (some class)

    she'll either remember u or wont and either case just sort of say well its been a while and ask her how she's doing or something and maybe ask her if she wants to get something to eat after her shift is over, if she says no or i'm busy, dont be discouraged, she might like you but is genuinely busy.
    After a few days u can go back, try to talk with her again, try asking her what time she gets off and maybe you two can go eat or take a walk somewhere, if not ask her if you can walk her to wherever she has to go after work
    just try to show that ur interested in her life and about her.

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  • Spikey007

    I know how you feel. I'm single and have never been able to ask a girl out. I feel too guilty to ask them out because I don't know if they have a partner or not. I'm in the same boat as you. but the fact that you're making an effort to see her is fantastic!

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  • BrokenHeartz

    Its normal, here is some tips

    1. Don't be afraid to confess your feelings, you can't learn if you don't try
    2. If you get dumped, don't give up, you can't reach your dream if you give up on it
    3. Believe in your heart, because if what you feel for her is true, love will find a way

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  • bboy765

    This guy is right is hard to ask a girl out but choose this steps and you'll see:

    1. Dont be the nice guy

    2. Do just One thing she likes

    3. Start hanging out with her sister or best friend ( she'll get jealous and ask you Out)

    It has worked for me a lot of times

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