Hate the way i look?

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Is it normal that I hate the way I look? Because I look like a piece of shit, I'm ugly af...And I don't know why do I still live. What's the reason of living this life if I'm a piece of shit that look like shit and have 0% self confidence because of that and I'm pretty sure I'll never have a person to like me...So what's the point of living? Just because I have a family? This is what I think. My family (mother/father/sister) is the only thing that keeps my alive because I don't want to upset them or fuck their lives because of my suicide.

PS: I'm 20 years old. Never had (or will ever have) a girlfriend.

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Based on 18 votes (12 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    So you're ugly. So what? The world is full of ugly people that end up having relationships.

    What isn't going to get you a partners is this self-loathing mentality you have.

    Shit, I'm considered good looking andiI hadnt had a proper relationship until last year.

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  • INSANE710
    6 years ago

    Your not ugly your Perception is

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  • Friedchiken
    6 years ago

    Even if you're ugly, personality can make somebody instantly a 10. Take it from an 18 year old girl, it doesn't really matter what you look like if you have a good personality. I can tell you right now your attitude and your insecurity is extremely unattractive. I dated somebody who had never had a girlfriend because they thought they were "too ugly" and I ended up having to break up with them because it was way too unbearable to handle. I couldn't compliment them whatsoever without them sobbing about their insecurities and telling me I'm wrong. It sucked because they were one of the coolest people I've ever dated but the self pity was just way too emotionally exhausting and unattractive. My point being that you need to change your attitude. If you don't then good luck finding a girlfriend.

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  • madluv
    6 years ago

    no idea what you look like nor do i care what you look like. Not everyone is shallow and cares about looks. please don't assume the world is like that. We are not clones!

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    You need to accept yourself and others will like you.

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  • Lighttunnel23
    6 years ago

    You gotta get to know yourself outside of what you think others may think. You never know who may like you.

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  • Rictictavie
    6 years ago

    Focus less on being in a relationship and more on improving yourself or doing the things you love. You may even find someone along the way.

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  • Fetiza000
    6 years ago

    I used to hate my look because of my hair, then one day i managed to fix it.

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  • TheGreyGuy
    6 years ago

    I suggest you to join a gym and workout 'cause that will boost up your confidence.
    If you're good at heart then it's all that matters.
    If girls wanted only good looking guys then more than half of the male population would have died virgin.
    Go outside more often and cut off all the people from your life that try to bring you down.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    If you can, I would go talk to a therapist or maybe get in touch with social services. Have a chat about this whole looks thing. We always make these things a lot worse in our minds than they really are.

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  • BeautifulDreamer612
    6 years ago

    I'm sure you are beautiful/ handsome

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    so just because you THINK you look bad you wanna end ur life ?

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    • GarbagePerson
      6 years ago

      Maybe it's not just what I think, but I what I really am. And that's why I ask myself what's the point of living if I'm ugly and I'll never have a person to love me.

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  • platov
    6 years ago

    lol...

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    • GarbagePerson
      6 years ago

      Well...lol

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      • platov
        6 years ago

        have confidence...girl does not look at face.they look at ur money...sooooooooooo

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    You have more control over your appearance than you think. Habits literally shape your face, bone structure and muscles.

    Read my profile and look into it.

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    • Pumpurrnickel
      6 years ago

      That will make hardly any difference. You either win the genetic lottery, or you don't. Simple as that.

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      • bubsy
        6 years ago

        You have no idea what the modern soft-food diet + computer posture has done to you. You can make real changes as soon as you start taking responsibility for your habits.

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        • Pumpurrnickel
          6 years ago

          Your face won't morph into a handsome one. Ever. No matter what you do.

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          • bubsy
            6 years ago

            What are factors of an ugly face? Long, weak chin, asymmetrical. These can all be improved over time.

            You now no longer have an excuse to do nothing.

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            • Pumpurrnickel
              6 years ago

              I never even said I was ugly, and I don't care how I look, so the last sentence was random and unneeded. As for improving those factors, that will slightly improve those things, not morph my face into a handsome one. It won't get rid of mole, or my smushed nose, or my unnaturally wide smile, or the fact that my eyelids are differently shaped. You have one trick on your profile, which supposedly slightly improves one thing after a long time. It's near worthless.

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