Hate and love him? :|

♫ Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession. ♫
♫ Love me or hate me, that is the question. ♫
♫ If you love me then thank you! ♫
♫ If you hate me then fuck you! ♫

Work on it if you can. I was in the same situation before and I really regret how that relationship ended even though it was so long ago.
In my case my girlfriend got very distant when she went to collage. Would rarely text me back, never initiated conversation, came to see me less and less as time went on and I ended up feeling very ignored. The relationship died once I started ignoring her in return. She insisted that she loved me, but even now I don't know if that was true cause of how she acted.

Hate is not good, and fighting is not good. You need to put your animosity aside and you two need to have a serious conversation about this. If you really love each other you'll compromise / work it out. If you don't... then you'll break up.

Break it off with him. I'm not sure if both of you actually love each other at all. What you should do is promise yourself to not come running back to him for at least 2 months, and afterwards if he still 'loves' you and you still 'love' him, then this will be a lesson to both of you if you choose to get back together. You can always choose to just stay friends with him, too.

Leave him Girl!! He always says that he loves u bcs he knows that that is the only thing which calms u down. He's actually taking you as BACKUP THING. Meaning he's like Oh i don't have anybody else, she will always be there for me!! He's actually taking you for granted!! Don't let him.
As being a guy i know how we behave with the girl whom we really love!! Its always so awkward that how much we feel for them(GFs)!! And there is no way we can hide that feeling!!
If you really want to try...have a serious conversation with him and tell him that as a girlfriend you want attention as you should be!!And not to take you for granted!!
And after this if he still don't take you seriously then he is not taking this relationship seriously!!!
BEST OF LUCK
@Mmmpfh. Yeh girls do behave like that!! That's normal for them not for Us!! She might be in love with you but she has moved on!! I can understand why u r saying that he should be given the chance, bcs i have went through the same situation!! But our both problem was the lack of communication. That's why i am telling her to have a conversation!!

You're both very young. Take a deep breath and then, separate. Go and get something meaningful in your lives. What you're describing is not love. It's a habit formed from a one time infatuation, that turned into convenience, then became bothersome, which is now seriously sour. Stop it before you're both seriously scarred. No matter what people say, or what some pop stars sing - love is not painful, not real love anyway. Love is beautiful, adorable, passionate, soaring to great emotional and physical heights, like standing on the peak of a breath taking mountain which makes you feel dizzy when you look how far you've travelled together, holding hands. Love makes years slip by unnoticed like a silent second hand on a wristwatch. At your age, if love doesn't feel like that, move on without regrets. Sometimes it just won't work out and you shouldn't try to make it. I hope you both find what you're looking for.

I was on the male side of that kind of relationship.I was young and dumb and I had no idea how wonderful the girl I as dating was until it was to late. By the time I realized it she was already mindset on leaving me. I honestly don't know if I ever would have grown up if she hadn't hurt me so I don't know what to tell you, but I was an immature person back then and I can NEVER get back what I had.

That was years ago and I still think about Allison from time to time. Best woman I have ever meet.

*BARF* I'm not usually not that romantically nostalgic your story just made me think back. I'm sorry to anybody who's time I wasted beating around the bush to a point!