Has this ever happened to you?

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OK this is the story,I met this guy on the internet "free" dating thing... We talked for about two weeks. Then he told me that if I didnt meet up with him on Valentines day he would no longer talk to me. So on the advice of my friend I met up with him. And we seemed to get along so well that less then 24 hours after meeting he was at my house every night spending every moment with me and my kids. Where was I going with this? Ohh yeah anyways Ok so here is the question Have you ever met someone and allowed them to come to your house and did i mention that we slept together on the first night? Is this normal?

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  • vitaminC
    13 years ago

    Wanna meet up? haha just kidding. I'm gonna go ahead and agree with " solarsunset" on this one.

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  • solarsunset
    13 years ago

    1st of all, I am NOT going to critisize you, but instead, give you some "HELPFUL CRITISIUM." You should always have someone with you when you first meet someone on the internet in person and you need to know this person really well before you sleep with them. He could have had AIDS for all you know! Just be a little more careful next time if there is a next time.

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  • gako
    12 years ago

    This is really creepy. Goodluck.

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  • lucylu3
    13 years ago

    Wrong

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    wrong way to start off meeting someone.

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  • XJayX
    13 years ago

    No offence but you sound pretty despreate.....I think you deserve better than a man that forces himself on you like that.

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    First off you started out on the wrong foot when you allowed him to manipulate you into meeting up on Valentines Day or else. Tells me what type of guy he is and also what you're willing to settle for.

    There are a host of things that are wrong with you exposing your kids to your self-seeking/man-seeking behavior. If you realized how hurt and confused children become in such a situation, you would recoil. Their tendency sways more in Daddys direction (more interest) once they get to be six or so. Don't know how old they are, but the will confusingly try to bond (out of instinct. Or recoil out of instinct) with any shack-up job youexpose them to.

    It's no longer about you. It's about those kids. I'm glad morevthan ever that I was never exposed to such ....I hatebthisbword, but filth. You can change it though if you so desire. Somewhere, and maybe not too far, within your a decent woman. Now, start living like it! God Bless

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  • Dnile13chik
    14 years ago

    No, and not to be rude but reading this makes me angry. You shouldn't have let a strange man in your house with your kids, That was an awful decision on your part and your kids could have gotten hurt, stolen or molested. You are making some retarded decisions.

    Your friend gave you bad advice, this guy sounds like a controlling wacko. Seriously, He gave an ultimatum to a woman he met on the internet less than a moth ago?

    The guy should have had more pride than to sleep in your house the first night, but every night? WTF?

    If you ever try internet dating again you shouldn't meet the person alone, especially if you are a woman.

    Everything in this situation seems fucked up, I hope you have better judgment in real life.

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    • Dnile13chik
      14 years ago

      Excuse my misspellings, your story got me excited.

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