Has anybody ever fallen for a married man/woman at work or still are?

Well all the married people I know either love talking about the fact they are married or marriages failed after a year and they tell me about it. Most of the people I know are old friends from before I graduated and I don't know a lot of others.

I know older married adults but they usually have kids and are my mom age so they wouldn't be in my market range anyways. I mean that is just gross who wants to feel like they are dating their parents?

I think a married person might hit on me possibly. I am not usually the one who does the chasing though. People just kind of fall over themselves to try and get my attention. Not to sound coincided but I tend to be very popular with the opposite gender.

Not that I am any longer interested in pursuing any of them. When the fish our flying into your boat at first its really fun but after awhile you wonder why you even try fishing anymore. There is only sport if you have to try catching the fish. If not its just another pointless task.

no... but they say that the taken is better and you enjoyed it more...

He's not quite married yet.

Well... I believe I have fallen for a married man, but I can't do anything about it. HE IS MARRIED and even has a child. I never thought in my life I would say that. It doesn't help that I work with him several times a week and I just need to back off even more. We both have interesting conversations and our opinions and interest are similar. I feel like we would of been a perfect match if he was several years younger and was single.

He is always teasing me, is really sweet to me and is very helpful when he sees I need help and when I ask for it at work.

But trust me IIN users, NOTHING is going to happen. I have what you call self-control. There is someone else out there for me. :)

This is going to sound awful.

I absolutely love my uncle. He is not blood related and in most ways, he is like a Father to me, which is what makes it a little disgusting because in some ways, he is my non-blood related Uncle. If that makes sense.

My uncle and I really click. We share the same sense of humor and our personalities are alike in enough ways so that we get along very well but different in enough ways to keep things interesting (like, we have good conversations because of our diverse personalities and experience). We're both into the same things and interests and we have a good time together.

I have never pursued it, nor would I ever. I am willing to consider that my feelings for him probably have something to do with some psychological explanation regarding the absence of my father and how he has taken my father's place and how I am confusing parent-child love for romantic love and I would be inclined to agree but that doesn't stop me from feeling this way.

I have never told him. I don't plan to. It is not something that keeps me up at night or anything like that. I just envy the living hell out of his wife. I am satisfied with my marriage and all, and my husband and I get along great and have a blast, great debates etc., but that doesn't keep me from thinking about it every now and then. I have even told my husband about it and he agrees, my uncle and I would have been a great match given the appropriate time and place. Even his wife has made the casual remark, which is what got me thinking in the first place.

Fun fact, he and my Dad hate each other. I have heard stories about them trying to kill each other, choking each other out, etc. Makes me love my uncle even more.

Wow, yeah, I sound like a huge shit-head.

A married man.. Great experience.

Wasn't at work, but yeah. Didn't know he was married until a few months after he ditched me.

No, I'm not at ALL bitter, and my self esteem is COMPLETELY intact. Hah.