Happily married with a kid. normal to seduce every hot woman i can?

Whilst ur away sleeping around, ur wife cud b on her knees blowing sum other guys brains out. This doesn't help u but it bought a smile to my face.

Good husband? Erm, me think not. Do your poor wife a favour and leave, give her the chance to find a man who respects her and appreciates her being at home with the kiddy and washing their pants instead of fucking everything with a pulse, and coming home and playing make believe. My ex cheated, and got caught. Our kids found out and he has lost his home, partner, and respect of his kids. He has pretty much nothing and no one wants him. Once your looks fade no one will want you either if u keep pushing the self destruct button. U have nothing to offer if u can't even do the decent thing and respect your wife and child.

you are not handsome. beauty stems from the heart, and you obviously don't have one if you can't trade lust for love

I hope someone tells your wife so she can find a man who deserves her. Your a shitty role model for your daughter. Would it be ok for her husband to cheat on her?

wtf is wrong with the world. seriously.

Good husband?!?!? Someone really is trying to deceive themselves aren't they? Poor wife and child having to be attached to a piss poor excuse of a human like you.
Best you can do is leave your wife, support your child and then you can have sex with all the women you want without at least being a cheating scumbag.

WAIT ,let me read the second line again " Im a great father and a good husband..." FUCK NO!!!

Stay Loyal to your wife!

Shit stain.

Btw you can help it. Try keeping your dick in your pants and saying no.

Unlike the other people in this comment section, I am not going to demonize you. However, let me tell you a story.

When I was little, my parents split up. I didn't know why as a child, but when I got a little older I found out that it was because my father cheated on my mother. Now I am a 21 year old adult and I still have a good relationship with my father, even if it's mostly long-distance when we're not visiting each other. I don't think my father is a terrible person. I know that he loves me very much. And I know that he honestly did care about my mother... Why? Because he CAME CLEAN about what he had done. He realized that my mother deserved a man who could stay faithful to her, which he could not. (Or chose not to, either one.) My mother eventually got over him and got happily remarried.

My father is not a bad person. But he sure made a sucky husband to my mother. If you come clean, I can tell you right now that you will most likely not loose the relationship with your daughter at all. However, if you continue cheating and are found out, most likely your daughter will grow to see you as a deceptive person who lied to her mother for years. I know that would make me angry if my father didn't come out honestly as he did.

And be warned- There IS a very large possibility that you will be found out. Your wife may not be saying anything, but I would bet money that she's already had at least a couple sneaking suspicions in the past that she's choosing to ignore, because she loves you. ESPECIALLY if you go on many business trips; that's always the first thing women think about and worry over when a man goes out for their job.

For these reasons, I say it would be in your best interests to come clean. And do so before your daughter is old enough to really remember her parent's divorce. My parent's divorce happened when I was 2, and I can't remember it ever bothering me too bad because I was so young that I can barely remember them being together. If you're going to end things, do it ASAP for her sake. She will grow up much more positively because of it, and still love you as a daughter should.

anybody make a tiger woods joke yet? no?

TIGER WOODS!!!

Wow what a piece of shit! Yea it's normal to want to feel like your something but wow you have no morals or tact. I don't understand how you can say it has nothing to do with your wife... Yea until you bring her home an STD from your douche of the year awards trip. I hope you can feel the pain that you will someday bring onto your wife. I also hope your child doesn't learn any of your teachings. Wow I am amazed that you could even think that this could be normal in any way. What a douche!

Then you're not actually being a good husband. You don't want to stop, or you can't stop? There's a difference & help you can get for that.

Hahahaha yeah imagine your wife fucking someone else! You are such an asshole!

You're disgusting. Adultery is a sin. I pray God will give your wife the wisdom and strength to leave you.

You haven't really though of anyone but yourself I see...

since you do not want to stop, there is little hope for your future. Sooner or later she will find out. It is unfortunate that a child is involved. The best thing for both of you is for you to man up and tell her. Maybe she will be fine with it, but most likely she will tell you to hit the road. It will be easier on the little one than in a few more years when your wife eventually finds out. The question you should ask yourself is why did you bother getting married in the first place, now not only will you give your wife this pain, but your daughter too

If you feel the need to be with other women then call it quits.

See a professional about it. There must be a psychological reason why you do this and why you feel this way

Yes I can help; stop being a cunt.

You need to find a charming, bisexual woman who you can somehow introduce to your wife & who will befriend her & then seduce her - from there it should be easy to get into a threesome.
That way you would be getting exiting sex without really being unfair to or cheating on your wife.

A reality check is what you need. A good husband and father doesn't cheat on his wife. What type of example do you think that you are teaching to your daughter if she ever finds out about your flings.

well Christ don't be selfish! leave your wife already so she can get jumped in a doorway by a sexy stranger!!! I'm sure she's thought about it before

It is if you're Spirit Albarn in the anime Soul Eater... just don't end up like Spirit. His life sucks.

If you can't stay faithful on your marriage, get the fuck out of it you whore bag t(-.-)t

you made the decision to get married and shared your vows, douche.

You cheat on and lie to your best friend? I don't understand your contradictions. What are you lacking in yourself that makes you have this addiction to feeling desired?

Scumbag I hope your wife finds our, divorces you, takes half or everything, and gets full custody of your child. You deserve nothing you piece of crap human.

I think 2 some extent it is normal to feel attracted to opposite sex even after marriage.After all humas are animals too.But as humans we are supposed to control it -that's how we humans differ frm animals.Don't forget all these feelings you described 'the newness,feeling of seduction etc.can be felt by your wife as well.and after knowing your thruth,she has all the right to satisfy all her desires..Is that okay with you if you find out the day u r on your trips your wife is with difft guys..??
But if you feel attracted to every other female out there,then sorry to say brother bt there could be something wrong with you.The fact that you are acting on it and not feeling guilty cannot be justified unless you are a maniac..u really need psyctrc.treatment. Truly spkg..your daughter could have taken after you in this which might shw as she reach her teens-hw would you expect her to act then?give in to her 'inherited quality' from her father?Follow your ways???
If you feel you can't be satisfied with one woman y did you marry?do what you want with your life but you have absolutely no right to hold your wife's right to have a decent family life &a trustworthy husband..Fear God,may be you can't control the way you feel-but definitely you can put an end to your actions.God gave you all these - your look,money an innocent wife who trusts you and an angel like daughter-He could take all these away in a split sec!!!if you meet with an accident and get horrible scars on your face,or end up handicapped or lose your job whom do you think you will rely on?Brother, He could bring you down to such a state where you would forget about your sexuality - Moreover 2 morrw it could break your heart to see your daughter visiting difft hotelrooms with difft guys!What do you think of that wide eyed look on ur daughter's face then??Does it turn you on??This is not about moral high ground but about human rights-If you wer nt married it was a difft story..She will find out so be ready to face it..we are only gvg our opinion-we dnt gain anything frm your welbeing.So think about it and act when there is time...hope you make the right decesion!!

TO 'FEEL' IS NORMAL-TO ACT ON EVERY SUCH FEELING IS ABNORMAL!GD LUCK!!

OP why haven't you responded to all these douchebags chatting shit fuck them do you whatever makes YOU happy why should you feel guilty for screwing someone else while married your wife shouldn't have married a hot guy ( taking your word for it) its not your fault why women are throwing pussy at you LOL man if you wanna get your dick wet occasionally do it (don't forget your condom though) you're married not dead marriage is over rated anyways you should get a mistress one who understands you're married and won't start shit with your wife keep boning whenever where ever if I was a dude I'm sure I'd be tired of the same pussy ever fucking day for the rest of my life have fun dude you're only young once LOL

Yuhr a sick man what if someone else was married to your DAUGHTER and fucked another girl whenever she wasn't around even worse she was the slut who he was cheating on? Then what? Imagine your wife doing another man! You're a horrible father and husband wait no PERSON I hope your dick catches fire! ASSHOLE

U say your marriage is god and u r honest with each other! That was ur first lies not to count the rest ur wife deserves a better husband then u could ever be !!! So set her free and let her and ur child live a better life if u care about them.

I have to agree with everyone on here cheating shouldnt be forgiven it's disgusting that you think it's ok to do this to your poor wife and innocent daughter not only are you ruining your life but you will be ruining your daughters and your wife's this will have a huge effect on your daughter and she'll probably never be able to trust men and may even become gay because of that and they way some women are you could very much lose the right to see your child.
So basically no it's not normal it's cold hearted and just plain evil! Leave her before she finds out and cuts your genitals off!

I didn't ask if I was a good person, just if it is normal.

Let me put it another way:

I love my wife. I would never be with another woman in our zip code or anywhere that it would take away from our time together. I don't want any ongoing affairs which would be threats to our relationship. Other than this, we have total honesty and are best friends. This is not a totally broken relationship (rocky at times, but not broken)

I am just addicted to the the feeling of seduction, being found attractive, the newness, etc... I'm not hurt by your slings and arrows, but behind all of your moral high ground, I wouldn't be surprised if most of you felt exactly the same way. (statistics say 60-90% of people are unfaithful at least once, so chances are you are mostly hypocrites - at least the men).

So:

1. Do you feel the same way when traveling and don't act on it?
2. If you do but don't act on it, is it because you are afraid of the consequences or you feel it is "wrong" to feel the way you do naturally?