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Okay so, i hang out with my two bestfriends everyday.. and its basically because i have nobody else to hang out with. im shy and dont talk to a lot of people at first but im crazy loud around those i know well.. im not upset about hanging out with them everyday, i enjoy it theyre the best. But anyways.. do you find this to be weird?
Go out and meet new friends, even if it is with your old friends. Just try to not to replace your old friends with your new friends. Made that mistake, after feeling a little bit too plain and bland hanging out with the same group, day after day. Each group of friends have different interests but it doesn't mean that they are less inferior to anyone else.
It can be both. Where it is and isn't normal. But what others have said is that people can have different perspectives on things.
It basically just depends on the people. In my opinion, if you're best friends it is normal to hangout everyday; but we all will need breaks from each other every once in a while with agreement.
-But there's also a form of attachment. But if all 3 of you guys are like that and enjoy spending time together and just having fun hanging out w/each other, then it is normal.
-But not everyone is going to be like that.
I do agree with Johnnycendol though where it is more important to create new friendships, but I also agree with the other person who said to keep your old friends while you make new ones. As a suggestion; when you do make new friendships and once you get to know them and get closer and want to hangout with them more; be careful with attachment. Because that new friend you made may not be like that. For me, it can be hard to have close friendships w/o attachment; but I've learned a lot about attachment.
-I've actually lost friends because of my attachment style.
Again, it just depends on the people and if they're okay hanging out all the time. This is what I heard about what best-friendship means which: "It doesn't involve spending consistent time together, it involves sharing a close connection together in different ways. And it is at a deeper level of emotional and psychological communication.
It is normal, but I voted not,
I think it's important to have many people to hang out with regularly because different people have different opinions and see things from different perspectives.
You can basically talk about the same things, but you'll have a broader perspective, having heard and seen things from different sides..
So, this could make your relation with your best friends stronger as well...
I meant to hit Yes, but i hit no becuase I read your last question...It's cool, but it seems like you want more friends.. Just try and relax when you meet new people, don't worry about weather they will like you or not..
totally normal. it doesn't matter if you have 100 friends or just 2, as long as they're good friends :)
This is normal. They r ur friends. I'm shy too haha I hang out with my friends a lot