Hands, i love them. is this unusual?

I've heard of hand fetishes before, and also that they aren't so abnormal. What I HAVEN'T heard of so much is this fetish coming from a chick.

It's always guys liking girls' hands. What about the other way around?

Take me, for example. I LOVE my boyfriend's hands. I mean, I can't even explain it. Sometimes, when we're together, I can't stop looking at them. They're so f*cking hot, I don't even see how it can be possible. They're large and angular and perfect. Just LOOKING at them, even in a picture, turns me on. I love his fingers (I have this thing where I'm always just too tempted to lick or suck on them) and his wrists. God, they're gorgeous. Biting his wrists is also a GIANT turn-on for me, and I have never talked to anyone else who feels like this to such an extent, not even guys.

Wow. I sound crazy.

But, oh well.

So, there's no denying that this is a fetish, right? And have any girls you know ever had this same thing going on? Is it only guys?

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  • whitewitchblackcurse

    No it's cool to be attracted to something like that. I really actually love the smell of guy's fresh sweat - like before it become rank and nasty it is so sexy! Just make sure your bf washes his hands before the love fest on them commences.

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  • chamelea

    Yes! Me too! Oh my god I love hands... Sometimes, hanging out with one of my guy friends (who has the hands you described) I can't help reaching out and playing with them. I'm even attracted to girl's hands, not sexually but æsthetically, like my friend Samantha who has hands (and I'm not even joking) are more beautiful than Renaissance paintings. I love hands.

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    • SeparateGravity

      Yay! Another girl with the same fixation, finally.

      And I totally know what you mean. Like, when I'm sitting with my guy, I can't NOT be touching his hands.

      And the same with the chick hands thing! They really are just, like, THE most beautiful part of the body. My best friend, Oona, her hands are absolutely gorgeous. Delicate and long-fingered and just flat-out pretty.

      No one's hands excite me like my boyfriend's do, but with ANYONE, hands are probably the first thing I really examine about their appearance.

      Like, for example, stubby fingers really put me off when I meet a person (which I know sounds mean, but it's almost like an automatic thing.)

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  • Starbird7

    I've never heard of something like that with the hands... Interesting.

    I have this weird thing where I love the smell of guys deodorant. Haha it's bizarre... But I, like, want to buy some Axe or something just to smell it.

    And I totally judge guys by their hair. The cuter they're haircut... The cuter they are.

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  • Brollyhero93

    PERFECTLY normal! I'm a guy and I love good looking but very skinny and bony woman hands! They can be very beautiful.... Ahhhh I wish I could meet a hot girl with those kind of hands... <3

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  • IndieLove18

    Omg!! Yes I have the same fetish for guys hands! Nothing turns me on more then a mans strong rough hands grabbing at and feeling my body. Guys hands are so hot!

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  • beautiful_dreamer

    That's completely normal. I used to know a girl a lot like you who loved a mens hands. I personally like eyes, not sexually, but just because I think a person's eyes can be so beautiful and alluring. Especially eyes with a slant or are light colored. Hazel eyes are my favorite.

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  • Evralette

    okay i love hands.. but not that much... lol

    there's nothing wrong with having a fetish. dont be embarrased hun.. I'm sure your guy adores this fetish.. cause his hand is not only something that turns you on but it also gives you pleasure...... :)

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  • r0fln00b

    BE MY GIRLFRIEND!

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    • SeparateGravity

      lol <3

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  • JackHammer

    and thinking about it, i have an obbsession with the way he smells as well. he just smells so good!
    anybody else get this?

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    • SeparateGravity

      Oh my gosh yes dude, that's totally normal. My boyfriend smells like heaven.

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  • albedo368

    i think that's awesome. i'm a guy, and i love feet, and have experienced a lot of personal fear that it wasn't normal, because it's a part of the body generally thought to be unclean, and as a result i don't tell anyone about it (except my gf). i would love it if my girlfriend had a hand fetish--she could suck on my fingers all day if she wanted. it feels great to have someone love and be fascinated with a part of your body, and, also, it feels great!

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  • Trollolol

    You're crazy, you're so crazy you have been accepted into the group of people called 'Humans', congratulations.

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  • browneyedbaybee

    I love my boyfriend's hands. But not that much. Hahah, but it's cool. Different people have different tastes. Have fun with those hands!
    :)

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    • SeparateGravity

      lol, Thank you ^.^

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  • Bonyhands

    WOW! I have exactly the same thing, I love hands, I keep drawing those all the time and I've started learning hand's anatomy haha, I take more pictures of my hands than I take selfies, hands are the sexiest possible thing out there! Best male hands are all slender, skinny and bony, somewhat feminine hands, hands of an artist or pianist, so perfectly sexy, hands definitely turn me on, especially hands of someone who I know and like, HANDS ARE PURE BEAUTY!!!!!!

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  • natii_l0v3

    I have this crush, well sort of (it's just physically) and when we take this class togeher I looked at his hands once and just the way his hands looked writting on that paper, when his holding his book or when he runs his hand through his hair and just his long thin fingers make me want to jump on him. so yes it's very normal.

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  • 80sDanceBabe

    Oh God, I know exaaaaactly what you mean. My boyfriend has the freaking sexiest hands ever! His skin is like a smooth, creamy caramel color and his hands are big and he has really long fingers. God, they are so perfect. I can't help but stare at them when we are together and it turns me on every time. Also, like you said, just looking at them in a picture or video turns me on. I have this urge to pick up his hand and lick it all over and suck on his fingers all the time. Just thinking about it turns me on! Trust me, you're not alone. It's completely normal. Everyone has fetishes.

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  • dereksmellsgood

    I think it'd be really hot to have a girl like that and have them suck on my fingers and stuff(:

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  • asiankittee

    its normal, i love a mans hands. the bigger they are the more of a turn on it is. To me it represents strength!! its so sexy when a man has large hands that can protect you; but yet can be so soft and gentle when hes holding you and making love.

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  • TempestuousDevilFish

    Oh truuuuuuuuust me I love hands too. I draw them. I want to hold them. Suck on them. Look at them. I stare at my own hands too. But guys hands... O.o MMMMM!!!! I want my guy now so I can massage his hands hahahaha sooo glad im not alone on this ive never even told anyone i like hands so much

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  • jamwicker

    oh jeeeze! im the same way i LOVELOVELOVE hands and foreamrs i just...even thinking about hot guy hands...AH!!!

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  • TehPurpleOne

    I can understand this. :) It's a simple attraction. Personally, I'm not attracted to hands much. I have to say, I am a straight 19 year old girl, but I love the beauty of women's lips. Especially when some beautiful effects are added to the lips~! I actually went on my deviantART and started adding pictures of beautiful lips to my art favorites. <3

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  • Monet19

    <3 lovee it :) mee too!

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  • awkwardali

    I love hands! But I like to say it is because I am an artist, and I'm attracted to things that would be great to draw, but I really do love hands, but really only male ones.

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  • BunnyBear17

    I like hands to.

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  • willystylee

    This is so awesome that some girls like this! Idk why, but I've always felt that if my hands look good that a girl would notice.. I too find girls hand attractive! I wouldn't canll it a fetish tho lol

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  • Ahaha im the same, I love guys hands and the arms :O sooooo much lmao, i duno y i think its normal lol

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  • heartbrokenbutterfly

    dude... i am totally aroused by my bf's hands. i wondered if that was weird too. he has really long fingers and also is a brilliant guitar player, so when i look at his hands i think about all the things he can do with them and it really gets me hot.

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  • Kai'Layah

    i love my boyfriends hands. actually its weird because his look just like mine but are larger.

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  • matches

    my wife has a hand fetish too. She loves my hands witch are very large because i have a disease called marfans syndrom it makes you be very large.I on the other hand have a match and fire fetish. Matches the smell sight and sound make me very horny

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  • ohhhhhhyeahh

    I know exactly what you mean!! I'm the same way^_^ I think it's normal, but maybe we are both freaks :P lol

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  • JackHammer

    well, i have a bit of a thing about my boyfriends hands. i wouldn't say mine is a fetish, since it is only him, but i can totally relate to what you are saying.
    and i think guys should thing it's cool when girls are like that too, since what's not to like about a girl being insanely attracted to him?
    :]

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  • escapist

    I totally know what you mean.
    Hands can totally change the way I look at someone, even if they're "ugly" if their hands are attractive to me, then the rest of them is too. Examples? Davey Havok from AFI, Hugh Laurie, Michael C Hall.
    I've had friends too, whose hands I was fixated on. To the point where I despise my own for not looking like them.

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  • PoisonFlowers

    I swear I just commented on another story about exactly the same thing...
    Anyway, yeah, I didn't think that anyone else had the same thing. They can be so delicious looking.
    So it's normal to me :)

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  • Nice fetish. Da Vinci & other artists focus on hands. They are artistic & amazing. You find them arousing. Seems fine.

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  • justlikeheaven

    i somewhat feel the same way, maybe not to that extent though. hands are definately one of the first things i notice about guys, and i definately pay a lot of attention to their hands. i could describe in complete detail what the hands of all my guy friends look like. i do think that guy's hands are hot in a way. not all of them though.. some guys have really girly gross hands. weird.

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  • DontCare

    I have an attraction to hands and i often wonder where it came from?

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    • PRETTYUGGREBOOTED

      where that came from? possibly you masturbating to porn on the internet LOL! an ad for hand sanitizer just came on the TV how insane

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      • SeparateGravity

        omg lolol you're so funny

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    • BrianPomona126

      I love skinny girl hands. HUGE turn on!

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  • Lambent

    I liked hands, I guess. They tell me a lot about a person.
    But not to the point where I'm turned on by them. o.O
    I guess I don't really notice hands unless I think they're really small, stubby, big, or dainty.

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  • Eye_of_the_beholder

    I have to completely agree - hands are AWESOME and lovely!
    I really like to draw them - i've taken up pretty much a whole sketch-book just drawing hands XD
    I've even found myself being put off someone i liked because they always had cuts,mud,food,god-knows-what on their hands - shallow i know but true :)
    You obviously aren't alone on this one =D

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  • hebaio

    i love hands!!!
    i don't know if i'd go so far as to call it a fetish, but i find some guys' hands really hot

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  • UtopianCosmos

    I love hands too! :D

    (I'm a chick too :D)

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    • SeparateGravity

      *high fives!*

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  • Ernest

    I dont think this is normal, but its harmless. :)

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    • SeparateGravity

      ^-^ Thank you.

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