Guys, what trait could you absolutely not put up with in a partner?

Also, I don't think you understand what "prudence" means.

Hint: it doesn't mean "being a prude".

Being awake.

when i love someone i could put up with anything, knowing that they love me back. when the love is gone, i guess all those things start mattering.

I can cope with almost any of them, although selfishness is out the window. Relationship is give and take, or hit the bricks!

Neediness , which is most likely a side effect of low self esteem.

Of all of the traits that I have encountered, I just can't stand neediness. I don't want to have to text someone all night every night until I fall asleep, or any of that stupid shit. I have things to do and a life to live and if you don't want to date someone that has commitments to keep then find someone who doesn't have anything better to do than text all day and night.

And I hate how often it is the people that complain that they can't seem to find anyone that is responsible and can commit that demand the most attention from their partner. I understand that no one is perfect and we all need a hand up sometimes but I am not going to enter a relationship with someone who is looking for a parent rather than a partner.

I picked option 2

self-esteem

your missing some important options, here's some I could not tolerate:

-apathetic/callous, because I'm empathetic and caring
-poor hygiene
-bitchiness. I can put up with some mood swings, but not with a perpetually abrasive personality
-liar
-emotionally shallow, doesn't have the same deep feelings for me as I have for her, pretends to like me to use me for something
-arrogance, it's an ugly trait
-mental illness such as anorexia or long-term depression or anything that I wouldn't be able to help her resolve
-diseases-I know you said trait, but thought I'd add it
-infidelity

Luke, I am your penis. Noooooo...

Anal. Hate it.

I dislike crudeness and low tolerance in my partner.

All of the above. Each one repels me.

I wouldn't like neediness.

All of them.

The baby talk one.

Being jealous all the time. If I put my trust in someone, I want to get some trust in return. It's very insulting to get interrogated even though you give her absolutely no reason to believe you're not faithful.

While each of these may get annoying at times, I think the first one is the only one I won't be able to handle.

The part when they won't shut up and let you have your say, then after you let them have what they want to say, they won't listen to you, speaks over you or just leaves.

I think I can cope with any of them, but obsession is the one I have found most difficult.

All of the above.

Well, excessive complaining is ridiculous who wants to be around negativety, but baby talk could be worse if a woman is talking to me like a child I will get so annoyed. Its not cute, don't speak to me like a child. And speak like a grown woman.

being a smartypants ( i'm poking my tongue out right now)

I have handled all of those and way worse.

I notice that the option didnt contain anything sexual so i guess it doesnt matter if we are sluts or not as long as you get to "ride" us!!!