Guys:what's the best thing your girl can do to refresh things?

Guys, what's the best way for your long-time gf or wife to refresh herself and be newly sexy all over again? Like, if she was to surprise you out of the blue wanting to charge up your relationship and be irresistible and super-sexy after a period of things being 'average' and 'comfortable'.

Please comment on an experience you've had or an experience you'd like to have! I need ideas!! Any sort of ideas!! It could include both appearance and possibly other things like a little adventure. Thanks!!

I'm on a budget so practical ideas on the cheaper side are most appreciated....I need to get the most bang for a buck here!!

PS: Ladies, comment too, if you've done something (successful!!) to recharge your relationship....

I'm a guy and I'll comment!! 3
I'm a lady and I'll comment!! 3
I'm just gonna make a joke!! 2
Give him a b.j.-duh. 4
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  • FocoUS

    Go camping. Having sex outdoors is still on my list.

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    • VioletTrees

      Man, my high school had woods behind it. Sex outside isn't exciting to me anymore.

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      • FocoUS

        This sounds like it's turning into a story. A scary story with masked murderers killing horny teens?

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        • VioletTrees

          Haha, no, just blow jobs in the bushes, because WHERE ELSE ARE YOU GOING TO GO?

          Edit: Once I blew a guy (my boyfriend at the time), and when he stood up, it turned out he was sitting on a cockroach THE WHOLE TIME. The cockroach was unscathed.

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  • Dad

    With men its about:

    1. Sex. ie
    -Try different things
    -Incorporate sex toys
    -A lot guys like the young girl who needs to be more submissive role
    -Just bring the guy to climax, and you should be fine!

    2. Food
    -Yes its true, the best (or easiest) way to a man's heart is through the stomach.
    -Make him his favorite food(s) regularly, everynight would be good
    -Maybe try some new foods

    3. Entertainment
    -Seriously Men are just grown up boys
    -A new game or gizmo can keep your man home for hours!
    -Big TVs and computer monitors, will keep them entertained all night!
    -Get involved with the male things he likes, like sport, or cop shows, or that type of boyish things.

    4. Getting out
    - Buy a 4WD and go out camping, preferably to a nudist colony
    -Buy him a fast car and go drive along route 66, and stay at some shady hotel
    -A hunting trip might be fun!

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    You see the problem is that YOU want to do something romantic for YOU. Which won't help him in the slightest. Actually he'll just stay polite but wish he was home playing his new game!

    How YOU make it more romantic and better for your relationship together is to stop stopping him from wanting to do all of the above!
    All of a sudden he might actually think you're the best wife in the whole world. Of which - You would be.

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  • shuggy-chan

    add some "shuggah" to your sex life.... hahaha

    idk but maybe have a extra person in the bed room might do it

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  • NoraBaker

    Hahahahahahaha I love the "I'm just gonna make a joke" option! Hahaha I'll come back later, maybe with the joke, maybe advice. :)

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  • alternative

    dress up for him. Wear clothes that will please him.

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  • Mason554

    Easiest way to refresh it tho is sex sex. Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex and more sex sexathon

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  • Mason554

    It's rough handcuff sex haha ha Im horny now

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  • Mason554

    Suck my cock and make me relly horny handcuff me to my bed then say we're gona have sex and then she climes on top and ..............................……………… and were done

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