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hey okay so I'm young alrigh looking and not overweight and I'm just wondering why guys only use me for sex and I don't want it anymore all I want to do is find someone who I can love but all I get users and I'm just wondering is it normal?
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a whore.
STOP putting out, and then they can't USE you. DUH.
Ever heard the saying, "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?"
Why would they invest their time, money, energy, emotions, etc when you'll do them with no effort on their part? THINK, kid. And we know you are...
dont listen to some of these idiots...guys are just trash these days....they are trash....it doesnt mean shes PUTTING out you stupid fools...guys are trying to use her-- guys do the same to me.. i hate them...
its not your attitude...its not YOU
its THEM--- they are SCUM....theyre not worthy of u in any way and dont give it to them...let them move onto the next girl tehy'll try to use-- theyre trying to use anyone for sex...they're losers....dont let them direspect you like that...u are better than that....
It's REALLY hard to imagine the sheer MASS of attractive women with the same problem.
Alot is in your attitude, if you allow people to use you they will.. Your a girl it is much easier for you to get laid than a guy, guys have to work a little harder, some guys are just catch and release, seems thats what your allowing in your life, so if thats not what you want you need to be better in your selection.
Well, tbh, a lot of guys don't respect what they get too easily. Just hold out longer before you sleep with someone. It could also be that you're just lookin in the wrong places, if you hook up with guys at bars or clubs, most of the time they won't be lookin for long term relationships.
I've had other women talk this way... They all turned out to be truly evil. I hope this is not you. I believe it is possible the relationship is completely normal and your partners are sensitive to you etc, however there's something you've not GOTTEN from the relationship that you wanted, and as a result you jump the the ridiculous notion that he was "using you for sex" to make yourself feel better. If you don't give a man a reason to believe you don't want sex, you cannot then accuse him of USING YOU for sex. Please, never become one of those people - I've seen how horrifyingly prevalent they are in today's society.
They assume youre easy, so they are going to want to go for you. I have the same problem, so I just make a guy wait and eventually they stray because they know I won't put out or if they actually like you they will stay. You need to put them to the test or you will continually be used.
Alaskaraven.. no one else get offended please but.. i read in your earlier posts about you calling yourself a christian but in every other post ive found you in. you have been condoning pre marridal sex correct?