Guys, how would you feel if you discovered your gf was doing this?

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How would you feel if you found out that your gf/wife was masturbating to porn instead of having sex with you? Like, not because she WANTED to but because you were unattractive** (snoring, being a jerk, smelly etc) or needlessly unavailable (being lazy, sleeping in late, etc) at the time.

What would you do after you found out? Would it motivate you to change? Would you dump her? Slip into a bad depression?

**I mean you were unattractive to her temporarily because of something you got going on that's fixable. She's still very much attracted to you in general.

wouldn't care	78
would be upset	61
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novonome

7 years ago

And the OP doesn't rub one out while looking at porn? If not why not? Totally healthy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Did you even read the question?
  
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  - novonome
    
    7 years ago
    
    If you are really into her and want to stay with her sort out the what you were doing wrong
    And if even after that she continues with the porn I think you should be ok with it.
    See if she will watch it with you but if not you have to be o.k. with it. Even if you somehow were to stop her she would still be masterbating while using her imagination insetead of the visual images.
    
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Doggysue

7 years ago

I do it all the time but still fuck my hubby.

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CreamPuffs

7 years ago

Nobody is at their full attractiveness 24/7. And sometimes it's just not worth all the trouble.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  There are times when you simply prefer a wank, absolutely-and there's nothing wrong with that, but these are times when she would rather have sex. That changes things, I think. I would care a lot if my partner felt forced to masturbate instead of having sex with me because of something I could fix. I'd feel bad for not meeting their needs. I'm sure they feel pretty bad too-rejected, ignored, unimportant?
  
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  - CreamPuffs
    
    7 years ago
    
    I've had a similar problem too a few months back with my boyfriend. It wasn't just that he wanted to wank every so often, it's that he completely lost interest in me. Maybe it is something you can fix, so I suggest telling her your worries to make sure there isn't a problem. I wouldn't worry unless this happens over and over though.
    
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- rltg4711
  
  7 years ago
  
  Sweetheart, thank you for what you said within your profile. Fact is, I simply try to just be me and in all honesty, you yourself are one gorgeous girl.
  
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- novonome
  
  7 years ago
  
  It's not difficult to ALWAYS be presentable infront of your partner. Many people (especially western women who have snared tiger partner) give up sooooo easily!
  
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Dot123

7 years ago

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ChrissySnow

6 years ago

My husband knows I like porn too. We just have TOTALLY different tastes in that area

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KekReptilian

7 years ago

Dump her immediately.

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TWATS&CUNTS

7 years ago

She must not think that your cock satisfies her cunt , asshole and mouth.

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Zeus_

7 years ago

People masturbate. That doesn't stop only because they are in relationships.

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_Rainbow_

7 years ago

If you want my mind, ask her what she'd like from you - what's enjoyable sex for her. There probably are reasons she didn't want to have sex with you or stuff. You should talk with her about it.

I wouldn't be upset, rather after myself than my girlfriend in any case. Plus, even in a "normal" couple, I find it normal to watch porn and / or masturbate even if you have a partner. I don't say I'd be pleased with it - but people do what they want with themselves. If she prefers masturbating, then she does ! You can still, though, ask why... and then maybe it can change. :)

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RoseIsabella

7 years ago

Maybe ya'll should have a conversation about this business?

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Handyman

7 years ago

I would love the idea that she masturbates too, but would like it more to have sex.
I would encourage her to masturbate with me, and work it from there.

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OnOmAtOpOeiA

7 years ago

I don't have a gf

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rltg4711

7 years ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman masterbating and indeed I would love to watch them doing it. So fabulously erotic.

All that aside, I would, were I her husband, take a good look at myself and ask myself why she has stopped having sex with me. The answere is most likely obvious so he would have to lift his game and win his wife back again.

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clevertrevor

7 years ago

It amazes me how you even have a girlfriend, you seem like a lazy cunt who does not bath, does not work, lies around all day in his dirty underwear and probably wears the same socks for days on end!

Get up, wash your smelly arse, get a job and then make love to your girlfriend!

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