Guys flirt with me, but never ask me out

I know I'm ugly, but weird enough, guys flirt with me constantly. I don't really get that. But the thing is, they NEVER ask me out. Iv never had a boyfriend for that reason except one, and I had to ask him out. (It wasn't very successful because we ended up not liking each other much in a romantic way.) Why flirt if you don't want a relationship? I don't get it...

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  • niveaissorry

    i wouldn't let something like this destroy your confidence, but a friend once told me that some guys will flirt with girls just so they can get them swooning as an ego boost. it was a bitch when my friend told me that, but i accepted it, because in my situation, it was the truth.

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  • randomjelly

    Sigh...they flirt but don't wanna date you easily translates into "I'd hit it and quit it". Some guys will stick their fishstick in any available tarter sauce...

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    • chewy

      i agree with you

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  • eroslives

    Randomjelly is for sure right.
    Brokenbeauty, seen a few of ur comments, ur not a nice person at all.

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    • chewy

      sorry but on this planet there are alot of unplesant and mean people you are just gonna have to deal with it like everyone else i myself have to deal with it sorry but thats reality

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  • Luis0307

    Because we want girls to give us a sign or something first before we make a fool out of our selfs aha

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  • andrelo_06

    Sometimes when they don't ask u is because they really like you. Our are the first person that they wanna go out with and they r shy to ask u out.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    Nope not normal they probably are not actually flirting with you!!!! You just want to believe that.

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  • She-WolfAlpha

    They might be joking with you, like a joke among a group of friends or themselves.

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  • xxxMissFitxxx

    :( Oh dear.

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