Guys: do you want a women that's...
I'm not supper skinny, so I've been wondering what guys want more?
| Supper skinny | 13 | |
| Got meat on her bones | 69 | |
| A little heavy | 16 | |
| Fat | 3 |
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Fall_leaves
Why isn't healthy ever a option? I think guys prefer girls that are healthy and comfortable with their body.
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Anonymous Post Author
Healthy isn an option because everyones definishion is diffrent...my mother thinks size 3 is healthy when shes a size 5-6 an im a size 16
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Fall_leaves
When I say healthy I mean it isn't shaming others for their size. Women are built differently we carry weight in different places, saying one size is fat or the other is skinny just stuffs women in boxes.
I don't care what men prefer, I'm the weight I am whether or not men are attracted to me. Women should have a positive attitude about themselves. I'm 130lbs at 5'7 and I feel good about my body, that wasn't always the case.
Sorry about the rant I guess this subject irritates me because there's too much pressure to be a certain size when it's unrealistic.
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Anonymous Post Author
See, all the people in my life tell me ' your so pretty' and 'your body is fine!' then i turn around an then someone else is telling me 'you could lose a couple of pounds'...at one point i was told by this guy i was in love with that my attitude was perfect an that i had a pretty face...but he then proceded to say that he cant be with someone so over weight...
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dom180
A fat woman who doesn't give a shit because she's happy the way she is might be attractive, but a fat woman who is insecure won't be as attractive. Attitude counts for a lot. A skinny woman can be attractive (up until the point where she looks malnourished, anyway), but attitude counts for her too. If she's skinny despite eating whatever she wants, or because she enjoys being sporty, she might be attractive. If she's skinny because she's a joyless dieter who is paranoid about putting on weight, she won't be as attractive. Having a positive mental attitude about your body trumps anything else.
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dirtybirdy
Don't worry about what guys want. Just be healthy and take care of yourself. That's attractive to many.
I'm a sturdy birdy. Just felt like tossin that in there.
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Anonymous Post Author
Are you a guy? I only ask because this sounds like something a girl would say...
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dirtybirdy
I am a woman and I assume you're a bit young to be so worried about it. Everyone finds different things attractive. Its not something we could give a definitive answer on.
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Anonymous Post Author
Im 19 an have only been in 2 real relationships...the first fucked my best friend an told me it was because she was skinny, thats the only reason he would have sex with her...the other beat me an told me i would be better if i wasnt so fat....im not fat, im chubby in the body but not the face, so you tell me if i have a reason to be consurned with my weight!?
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dirtybirdy
I can understand why you feel the way you do but its those people with the problem, not you. Both those guys were assholes and that's a shame because not everyone is like that. If you want to lose a few pounds to feel better about yourself that's great but don't do it just to be more appealing to douchebag dudes who only care about how skinny a girl is.
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thegypsysailor
Toned and fit; athletic. But I live an active lifestyle and some fat assed secretary type couldn't handle the activity level, and a super skinny gal would probably blow away in a stiff breeze.
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[Old Memory]
In before the "personality matter" gro...Oh...Too late.
Most people do not like chubby women over healthy thin women physically. Does this mean they would not settle for someone with a bit of meat on their body and don't have the whole flat stomach thing? no.
I myself prefer it when they have a bit of meat on them but not a lot, just a healthy amount.
It goes as such in terms of attraction:
4. Heavy.
3. Extremely skinny.
2. Bit of meat, not enough to be considered fat.
1. Healthy skinny.Ofcourse personality will matter to someone's overall attractiveness, but someone with the same level of attraction with a better body will be favored in terms of attraction.
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[Old Memory]
Let's go through this.
- Makes joke about the "Personality will always make you more attractive physically" statements.
- Stated that people with healthy bodies that are skinny will be favored over other people physically of a less healthy of physically appealing form.
- Stated that this does not mean that healthy thin women will be picked over women with a bit of meat but other positive qualities.- Stated that I prefer a little bit of meat on someone.
- Listed people in terms of physical appearance that will be favored over the others in terms of physical attraction which can be seen everywhere.
- Stated that a more physically fit person with a great personality will be favored over a less physically fit person that still isn't considered "fat" that has an equally positive personality, as in if both people have great personalities but one is in better shape than the other, they will be prefered (So crazy, isn't it?)
Reaction from IIN community: Downvoted.
And you lot wonder why so many of the prominent old regular left?
You want the truth so long as it doesn't make you feel even a little sad.
Fuckin' idiots. You would maul out anybody that stated Jabba the Hutt could be a hunk if he just has a pleasant personality.
This site is becoming more of a "Believe in fairy land" community.
Again...So many users have left because of this shit. Ta, modern IIN community.
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Pika-girl
Don't worry, guuuurrrrrlll(ah)!
Just be comfortable with yourself! I mean, different guys have different opinions, right. You must get a dude no matter what size!
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Anonymous Post Author
Well, i cant get one...people, guys, tell me all the time 'you are perfect!' but they dont like my body. If i was skinny i coyld be the girl next door...but at a size 16-18 and at 200 pounds i just dont make the cut...
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LaughinSkull
They tell you you're perfect because there is nothing wrong with you. A size is just a size and that's that. I know guys who are really into fairly large women, I know others who are shallow and only go for skinny girls. I know some who will take what they can get.
For me it's more if I can connect or not. Sometimes someone likes you and they feel more like a family member to you than a special someone. For others you spend all night talking about stuff that doesn't matter and enjoy the moment, and you feel like life was empty without them.
Idk long story short I guess it isn't a cookie cutter science of "Be this weight people will like you" or "Act this way and people will like you". If you haven't found someone yet it's just because you haven't found him yet. But he's out there, just keep looking ;).
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Pika-girl
It's alright... I worry about my size, too, but a guy likes a girl who is comfortable with her own body and doesn't worry about it. They like confident girls who aren't afraid about her appearance.
Plus, nothing's impossible (except some stuff like breeding a unicorn and a Charizard)! I'm sure you CAN get one! Come on! They say, "You're prefect!" That's a compliment! Take it and the dude!
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