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I'm not necessarily looking for an is it normal answer, I just wanna see opinions. Be honest.

Women:
Would you rather date a man, who isn't all that great on looks, but is kind, sweet, funny, opens doors for you, would like for you to be a stay a home mom someday but isn't opposed to you working, and has worked all his life to obtain everything he has? Or would you rather date a devilishly handsome guy, who has abs, has no ambition in working for a living, but has a nice car, and house?

Men:
Would you rather date a woman who isn't all that good looking, but is smart, funny, works for individuality, and wants to be a mother someday? Or would you want a sexy lady, with no ambition to work, doesn't plan to be a mother, and doesn't want to be "tied down"?

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Based on 23 votes (16 yes)

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CountessDouche

9 years ago

Yes! I have dated that man, love dating that man, and will continue to date that man (the nice one).

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  If only there were more women like you. Haha
  
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  - CountessDouche
    
    9 years ago
    
    Aww. Chin up, ok. We're out there, women who appreciate kindness in a partner above all else. I know it's frustrating- 9 out of 10 women go for the douchebags. I'm not going to deeply psychoanalyze that load of crap, but I know how frustrating it must be. Just...don't let the dating world stomp the nice out of you...that would be a travesty.
    
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      9 years ago
      
      Dating world can't stomp out anything if ya can't get a date anyways. :P
      
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Dream_Killer

9 years ago

Well this is easy as I have never been one to go for looks anyways. The first choice of course!

I've dated 3 people within my whole entire life. The first 2 I dated were completely ugly, but they had qualities in their personality that I really liked and made them attractive to me. Never really been attracted to guys who were thought to be "hot" or "sexy" unless it was an anime character. lol

The one I'm with now you described perfectly in that first sentence. He is nice, a gentleman wants children and want to work hard and all that other stuff.

Only thing is, my guy isn't bad looking at all. He may not be all muscular and the definition of sexy but he is far from ugly. :3

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

I like the part where you don't include the male option for a woman allowing her man to be a stay at home husband and so on...Cus men shouldn't get that easy way out of life, amirite? ;)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm old school, so nah, the man should always work.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    9 years ago
    
    Hmm. Are you a guy or a girl?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Take a wild stab into the dark.
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        9 years ago
        
        Gonna say girl. How close am I?
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        Exact opposite of a girl. Lmao, good stab though!
        
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- CountessDouche
  
  9 years ago
  
  Hahahahaha shut the fuck up, Duzzy lol
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    9 years ago
    
    I know, I know, this post is too cool to have equality. ;)
    
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Askkrod

9 years ago

As a woman, I would definitely go for that first guy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  And that makes two women in the world! Haha, like your answer.
  
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helloilikebacon

9 years ago

Funny this question is here, because I have a guy friend and I like him more than a friend. He's really nice to me, but I always ask myself "why do I like him? his hair is weird and he walks kinda weird".

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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

Bachelor number one of course, but he might not be interested in someone my age.

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Nokiot9

9 years ago

Physical attraction is a must. Its shallow but true. If u aren't remotely attracted to your SIGoth then it just isn't gonna work out for long.

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BurningCity1131

9 years ago

I'd prefer the nice guy who wouldn't mind me working but still would like the thought of having a kid in later time. If he was educated and had ambitions to take care of his family then I'd like that too. I'd be fine if he wasn't a statue of David look alike, because then he would less likely be snatched from me. If he did look like the statue of David and be educated and ambitious that would be a healthy bonus.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  And that answer, is the reason why I'm still fighting to find a lady with a mind set like yours. I'm educated, I'm nice, I want kids in the future, and I've been told I have a dancers body. But I have had the absolute worst luck with the past relations, so I'm honestly just waiting for someone to notice me, now. Haha
  
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  - BurningCity1131
    
    9 years ago
    
    Honestly the fact your still single is what makes me question human sanity daily.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Awww, haha. I'll take that as a compliment. :P
      Thank you for that.
      
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      - BurningCity1131
        
        9 years ago
        
        Your Welcome. How old are you anyway?
        
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        9 years ago
        
        I'll be 23 in Feb.
        
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dunwichu

9 years ago

Sorry you have experienced rejection from such girls.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  That's quite alright, I'm not dead. Yet.
  
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green_boogers

9 years ago

High attractiveness in women is a danger sign. It can indicate high maintenance, self-absorption, manipulative selfishness, etc. Some women that have average looks can sometimes project lots of sexuality without much beauty. Their higher intelligence is not immediately noticeable.

I look for women like this.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  That pretty good. I like that answer!
  
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Darkoil

9 years ago

The good looking woman.

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Anonymous Post Author

9 years ago

I'm enjoying reading all of the answers I have gotten. Thank you all!

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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

Neither.
The first guy seems like a good choice, but I do not wish to reproduce, so he's a definite no go.
The second guy is probably a moocher that's cheating the system somehow(like most of the people have openly admitted to doing on my block), so he's also a no go.

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LAR23

9 years ago

I don't want either. I would feel smothered by the nice guy, and the other is just.. no

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KeddersPrincess

9 years ago

How did he get a nice car and house if he has no ambition to work?

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  9 years ago
  
  Parents, or the lottery. :P
  
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Crusades_

9 years ago

I wouldn't date either of those types. It has to be a mix between the main traits. Beauty and intelligence are both a must for me. I bring a lot to the table so i expect the same.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm not all that attractive, but I'm not hideous. I have brains like no other. Been told I have a dancers body, not so sure what that means. Lol
  
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  - KeddersPrincess
    
    9 years ago
    
    Means you have a beautiful body. :)
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      I'll take that, I suppose. Haha
      
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