Guy who wouldn't let me touch his balls. how common is that?

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I went out with this guy who once during sex removed my hand from his balls and said, nicely but firmly: "I don't like my balls to be touched"
I couldn't believe it, I thought he would just love it like any other guy. It was so unexpected and funny.

I don't like my balls touched either. 40
I'm not like that, but have a friend who doesn't like it either 9
I've dated someone who asked the exact same thing 11
That's impossible, who wouldn't love to be touched there? 37
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  • Neuro42
    8 years ago

    Your mistake is assuming all guys are the same. lol.

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  • Andurlittledog2
    8 years ago

    Everyone is different. Some are very sensitive. Some do not like it because it hurts.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    Silly Crusades

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  • Riddler
    8 years ago

    If they dont want you to touch them leave them alone you rapist!

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    • lelouch82
      8 years ago

      Couldn't have said it better

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I really can't stand to have my balls touched either. Too sensitive. The thought of someone touching my balls has the same effect as nails on a blackboard for me. Your friend may be in the minority, but it's not that uncommon.

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  • thefuckup
    8 years ago

    I want to have sex so bad that my eyes are bleeding.

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    • modernism
      8 years ago

      Might want to get that checked out.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    What's so surprising about that? Some do, some don't ....

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    • lelouch82
      8 years ago

      Exactly, it's the same with girls in terms of having their boobs touched and some don't, right? Same deal

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Exactly

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        • lelouch82
          8 years ago

          Meaning some women likes them touched and some do not, excuse me

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            Yeah I realised that

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    Some people just don't like certain things. I really can't see why it's funny.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I explained it wrong, my bad.
      It was only funny the "scene" itself.
      Me assuming that what I was going to do was going to be thoroughly enjoyed and then to be asked not to.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    Some do, some don't. I do.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Maybe you surprised him. You know how when someone throws something at you and it hurts because you were shocked, not from the actual force of impact? It's kind of like that.

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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    8 years ago

    Maybe he is self-conscious about the appearance or feel of his testicles.

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  • lelouch82
    8 years ago

    I wouldn't like having my balls touched either, and if he doesn't like it then don't push it..

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    It hurt me whether it was her hand or mouth.

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  • LizardSkin
    8 years ago

    My balls love attention

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Maybe his balls love it too, but he wasn't willing to share my attention with them...

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      • lelouch82
        8 years ago

        If a guy doesn't like that, then respect that and leave it alone. How would you feel if a certain guy wants to touch or look your boobs and you don't like that? Just saying, if you were in that situation

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      • LizardSkin
        8 years ago

        Well that would be weird unless he didn't let you touch all parts of his groin.

        Maybe he's had some previous trauma to his balls, and he has Balls-PTSD.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          I'm gonna start developing PTSD if commenters don't stop answering as if I did something violent with his balls. I respected him and immediately did as he told me, and of course I didn't insist, if that's what some are imagining!

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          • lelouch82
            8 years ago

            I'm not judging you at all, I was only just saying "do it with consent" and it does not mean that I think you're not. I'm glad you respected him and didn't insist! I was also saying people shouldn't be surprised because some people don't like something mainly because people are different regardless of gender. And I get it, it was unexpected and surprising, but the important thing now is that you learned from it! And your apology you said to me in your response to my comment, I forgive you!

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              :)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Balls-PTSD sounds plausible.

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          • lelouch82
            4 years ago

            Looking at this, I can see that you're not innocent, and that the apology was a lie. Considering that you did come off as disappointed and said that it sounds plausible enough that he has "balls-PTSD". As I said, I don't like my balls touched but it doesn't mean that I have negative experiences with mine, the answer is simple, I don't like it and that only. Your response sounds like a rapist sort of statement and the "PTSD" thing is only for you to play the victim

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    I like girls to bite off my balls and spit them in my face during sex...I don't know many people who need a trauma team on standby while they have sex.

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    That might tend to shorten the duration of things sometimes, so maybe that was why. But that's because it feels so good, so it's still kind of strange for him to say that he actually doesn't like it.
    The only other thing I can think of is, maybe he had some sort of bad experience or even injury...? I don't know.

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    • lelouch82
      8 years ago

      I wouldn't like it either, and I'm tired of people assuming that it's weird

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        I'm sorry.
        I asked because I wanted to know how common it was, that's all. I didn't mena to judge, sorry.

        And even if it wasn't common, that wouldn't make it wrong. If I didn't like, say, my left boob being touched, I'd just laugh at my singularity, 'cause it would certainly be unexpected and would puzzle my partners :)

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        • lelouch82
          8 years ago

          Well next time, don't force your way on with something when someone doesn't like something or say no.. Thus you also gotta realize that not everyone is the same on every single thing nor should it be even surprising to people. I'm not telling you what is right or wrong but I will say this, just do it in a consensual way. -_-

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  • PeterFile
    8 years ago

    You should try touching a 4yr olds balls. I fucking love it!

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    I want you to pull and twist and my Balls whilst we are fucking, If you really want you can get down and chew them if you really feel like it! I think it is tremendous that a girl likes balls!

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