Guy older than my dad

i met this guy who was much older than me while i was at work months ago. he'd come in at least 2 to 3 times a week just to come to my lane to check out and talk to me. i thought he was extremely attractive. one day he came in and i asked if we could hang out outside the store. later that day i took my 45 minute lunch break and he joined me. we exchanged ages, i'm 20 he's 49. we made plans to hang out again and we did. a few days later he picked me up from work and we spent the whole evening together and it turns out we have a shitload of things in common. he told me before he dropped me back off to my car that he would be busy the following month and we wouldn't be able to see each other much. but now it's been almost 3 months and i still think about him. we have only texted a couple times. he told me he was really attracted to me and i would've loved to have hooked up with him. should i leave this alone? or try to reach out to him again?

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Who's to busy for 20yo vagina?. Maybe this dudes wife found out and is holding him hostage in the cellar. Just a theory.

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  • (s)aint

    Something isn't right. he's close to 50 years old and got you, a 20 year old chick who wants to hang out with him and he´s ...busy!?
    he's either married or got some other shady stuff going on.

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  • handsignals

    When I read the title I was like 'IIN that there is a guy older than my Dad'

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  • richmanjoe

    Not only is it normal but a relationship with an older man can be great for everyone.

    I am over 45 and my gf is 20 and in college. I love that she is slim, affectionate, sex crazy, has a heart of gold and is delightful. She loves that I talk to her at a higher maturity level, that I have financial resources of a someone who has reached stability, that "You know what you are doing down there, guys my age don't", and that I have experience she can learn from.

    I went out with a 19 year old last year, and I asked her, "Why do you like older guys?" She said, "Because they don't expect me to pay." I think she had a point too.

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  • thegypsysailor

    My wife is 26 and I'm in my mid 60's. We been together for 3 years and have an excellent relationship. We are together 24/7 as we work together and do everything together, like shopping and exploring the islands we visit, so we figure we've actually spent as much time together as a normal married couple who have been together 7 to 8 years.
    Anyway, my point is an age difference shouldn't be an impediment to seeing if you are compatible with another adult.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls

    Lol wow.

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  • CoraCook

    Oh, wow! If I had a 49-year-old dad I wouldn't need a mom!

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