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I'm a girl and I find girls so boring because the just sit and gossip and prefer to be around guys that play sport and joke around.
So I often hang out with boys more than girls.
Is this normal?
Girls dont like you probably because you are a attention starved flirty girl fgrom what it sounds so have fun while it lasts one of these young bucks will try to bone u sooner or later guys that have girl friends just are waiting for the right time
MrG, you're right.
Two of my guy friends have tried asking me out, and I'm actually dating one of the two right now.
I thought that I could get some true friendship out of these people, but I guess that's not possible.
At least its been worth it though. Not entirely because I got a date out of it, but because I have people my age to talk to about deep things. I'm not saying other girls don't like these sorts of topics, it's just that we're usuallly stressed, so a lot of us can't handle talking about depressing/not fluffy things on a regular basis.
i am the same, and i find guy better for spending time with if you want enjoy your self with. i just wish it wasn't so akward people always tease me becuse i hang out with guy if i hang out with a guy aparently that means i have a crush on them.
I feel the same.Hanging out with your girlfriends once in awhile is okay but all the time it gets really boring.Most of my friends are guys and i love hanging out with them and they love hanging out with me.but theres just one thing,i have so many guy friends some just want more than friendship..thats when the situation get complicated..
guys are equally boring. all they ever want to talk about is macho bullshit like cars and fucking and athleticism. I have like 5 friends that I actually enjoy their company and conversation, because they're just good conversationalists. has nothing to do with gender.
i think it is normal i have only two freinds that are girls and the rest are lads...
Please, learn to spell and use proper punctuation. The same goes for everyone else, and even a sixty year old man can sound like a thirteen year old girl if he doesn't spell or use grammar properly.
I think you hang out with people, male or female, who interest you. I think you are really over-generalizing about girls being bores/guys interesting. And an obvious bias is simply finding the opposite sex attractive. Normal. But try to not to brush aside all the interesting girls who feel, as do you, that there is more to life than gossip.
Completely normal but be careful. Women prefer to be friends with men because the friendship is far more genuine which is still arguable. Women see other women as threats which is why women compete with each other but not for the sake of men. They are extremely fake, sneaky, and all out bitchy.
The contrary side, you will be considered a whore not only by males but by females as well. Moderate, seriously. I have so many girl FRIENDS who have failed in this and even the guy friends automatically assume they are flirty attention starved sluts. Parts of that statement are true, I tend to think there is some sort of additional need for male attention but I think it is normal. However, you will unintentionally lead on guys and absolutely break their hearts when they find out you have no romantic interest in them.
Just make sure that you make it absolutely clear that you are not romantically interested in them, don't use them for ANYTHING even though society says it's okay for attractive women to do so, and have some girl friends simultaneously. I worry more for the males than I do you personally, just be careful. From my personal experience, girls like this are more subject to rape but not that significantly. Don't tease your guy friends because chances are, some of them just can't handle it.
I know exactly what you mean! girls are quite boring, and I really love hanging around with guys. They joke around, I mean, they are so much better to hang out with than girls!
thats exactly how i am.. ive met some chiks who hate chiks too lol and we get along, but i got 2 chik friends and other then that i hang out with guys, well mostly my bf cuz we both like 4x4n and dirtbiking and skateboarding and all the fun things, i dont care what new dress or shoes are out i wear skate shoes and i wear em to the very end haha their guna get dirty anyway!
You need some different friends. I'm shocked that you say this about girls - do you really suppose we're all alike? We are as different as men. I've just noted eight friends who are all serious-minded - in fact I'm considered the light-weight for enjoying sex so much - but we all have minds and use them. We're also all Chinese but perhaps it's just our tradition that may weaken over time.
My best friend and I were attached at the hip for ten years. As soon as she got a boyfriend I hardly ever saw her. she ended our friendship with a nasty text that said things that are untrue. I keep a wall up with girls because so many of them have hurt me, even ones that hardly knew me. I'm thin, pretty, hang out with guys alot, and say what I want when I want. So girls automatically hate me. My guy friends just say I'm the coolest chick they know. The girlfriends that I do have say that once you get to know me I'm awesome. Still I will never make my presense less noticeable just because another female is in the room.
Lol,
I have to agree with you.
To me, I find it waaaayy easier to make friends with guys than girls cuz you gotta watch what you say to chicks. They mgiht take it the wrong way and probably hate you for life haha. But you have to hang with both genders cuz' if ya don't the girls will start calling you sluts and shiz.
this is completely normal. i am the exact same. dont feel like you are excluded from other girls because your not. some girls feel that being with lads all the time is intimidating wheras youself and myself feel mroe confortable. And lets face it, lads are alot less bitchy. Its completely normal
I thought I was the only one that thought that. Since girls that are always around boys are seen as sluts and desperados and stuff. I prefere a boys company any day. Girls are ok if you want to talk about periods and stuff, but boys are more fun to be around when you want a real conversation. Boys are also more true to you than girls, unless you know the girl well, like best friends.
Totally normal
I don't like the way you've generalised girls =.= I'm a guy, but most of the girls I know aren't like that at all. Maybe it's just a cultural difference between where I live and where you do (I'm assuming America).
I hang out with boys more than girls. Girls lie too much and are about too much drama and at the same time they now are always jealous that Im so close to these guys who they like (:
this is normal there is nothing wrong with hanging round with guys just cause you are a girl it just means u dont like the same things as they like u r perfectly normal
yes its normal cuz i feel the same way too. And boys are funny and i am funny too so yeh your normal hangin out with boys is normal. i hang around with boys for almost 5 years.lol i am not a tomboy
I think it is. I don't really hang out with girls either. Girls normally want to talk about make-up or guys or whatever else is stupid that they can jabber on about. When I hang out with guys I can talk about movies and poetry, science and politics that is what I'm into. If a girl is actually really smart and likes to talk about those things usually they are stuck-up bitches, but I can't judge really since not everyone is the same.
Wow, so generalized. I'm fed up with generalizations related to gender. Face it, there are no mental gender differences.