Great sex but not enough of it...

I've been with my boyfriend for two years. I know he is the one, and love him with all my heart. The problem is we only have sex about once every two weeks. When we do have sex its great, but getting there is like pulling teeth. I know he is interested in sex. He likes porn and masturbates. It's hard not to take the lack of interest personal. Any suggestions????

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Comments ( 18 )
  • Lysette

    Masturbation instead of having sex with you is a colossal insult, sweetie. I am certain he is not thinking of it as such but that is the kind of thoughtlessness for which lead pipes were made to bring to his attention. I am surprised that you have not been crying hysterically considering that you think of him as the love of your life.
    The next time you bring up to him, just tell him you will be having sex with other men from now on since he finds sex with you so repulsive that he prefers to masturbate instead.

    Le trou du cul folle! Le connard inconsidérée!

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  • JoethePlayerz

    or give me a call

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  • seriously2233

    its juest that ur boyfreind is gay

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    • DiscoDuck

      You have a point there....maybe her bf is at least bi. Remember if he likes to watch porn then maybe its not the women he is looking at...I mean its hard to miss those big fat cocks

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    • kawa16

      maybe he thinks he doesnt please you and if he watches porn maybe you should try to moan or something i have sex every chance i get i wish i was him

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  • DiscoDuck

    Maybe you guys don't do what he sees porn people do...

    Watch some porn with him and rub his tool and suck it while he is watching. Be creative.

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  • Bluevixen

    I've tried all of that and or doesn't work.

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  • Coolmale3000

    I don't see it as a problem.A lot of people seem to think that they can only be happy if there's plenty of sex but sometimes people have the best sex and still break up.Some women have to understand too that during sex sometimes guys get anxiety which affects their erection unlike masturbation.Masturbation is much easier,you are more relax and there's less tension.Sex is not the only reason to be in a relationship and there are other things more important than sex.If you really love your partner it shouldn't really matter if you have sex once every two weeks or not at all.

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  • lala85

    I guess he is no longer attracted to u

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  • mrstree2u

    thats bad maybe you need to change things up a bit do something you would normaly would'nt do change the look

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  • Gidget

    maybe if u did it all the time it wouldnt be as good

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  • UNPLUG HIS COMPUTER!

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    • JoethePlayerz

      seconded

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  • atimeforbeingahuman

    men and women can look back on their first date , the discovery of a first close friend or their first falling in love. they were all beginnings ,all points at which something came alive in them for the first time, something that could not be called back or ignored. these are the events in which we learn who we are and consolidate our identity being it may seem looking back, that becoming a friend or falling in love takes place an instant the guy is just a douche bag and doesn't love you he only has lust he is using you for sex and pleasure

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  • Alaskaraven

    If he doesn't lose the porn, lose HIM. He will NEVER change, as there is NO sex as good as what immature men think porn is.

    My ex actually thought movie stars really looked that way in true life, even though they all ADMIT to implants, plastic surgery, extensions, $3,000 a week for personal trainers, etc. Dumbass.

    Porn is an addiction, you will always come in 2nd for sex. Or, take a BF on the side...

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  • cotwamf

    show up to his house naked and give him an armenian snowcone.....rub wax all over yourself and grab him by the junk

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  • alexisfreak

    Strip for him, suck his tool, rub it, play around with it. Do everything that comes to mind.

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  • joshsw25

    just be creative, surprise him dressed up or something, who could refuse that? or, be assertive, take his clothes off and tell him you want it, most guys like assertiveness, and you will get what you want.

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