Great relationship outside the bedroom..not so much in it.

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For starters my boyfriend and I are best friends. we get along great, our families love us and we are crazy about each other....the only problem that we actually have is our sex life. We probably have sex like once a week for about five-ten minutes. Now we have only been dating a year and we are only 23 and 22,but when it comes to the bedroom I feel like we've been married for years and we need to make room for sex. Now one major down fall is that my boyfriends parents are divorced and he shares a room with his 9 year old brother(talk about a cock block)so yea I can understand that we cant do it all the time. However hes 9, just tell the kid we are taking a nap, lock the door and do me. I have suggested doing it in public places to spice it up but hes not really about it...and at my house(I have my own room) he usually falls asleep as soon as he hits my bed lol. When we finally do have sex its literally five minutes and he tells, me it's because he's still a rooky(Im the first person he's slept with) all I know is that I'm extremely sexually frustrated...I a bf who is wonderful to me and makes me feel like a princess but at the same time makes me feel like an old spinster when it comes to sex. I don't know what to do but I feel like I want sex more than my boyfriend. Is this normal and what should I do?

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  • myspace84
    9 years ago

    On one hand you have a great relationship which is not an easy thing to find...but if you don't get your sexual urges taken care of you will despise him later in life and have a higher chance of being unfaithful...being so young I personally would suggest moving on and having better sex but you have the weigh the pros and cons for your own self...also if he can't satisfy your needs in his prime years then maybe you two are not a match in terms of libido and that alone can lead to many issues

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  • myspace84
    9 years ago

    One more thing...open communication usually does solve these issues

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  • polopo
    9 years ago

    Buy a dildo?

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  • WeirdMe
    9 years ago

    Just tell him that you want really good sex. That you feel old because he doesnt satisfy you. Ask him to use his hands and tongue for your vagina down there.
    Just be honest and everything will be okay.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    You need to hit him up & make sure he knows that you're not satisfied.
    It's an important part of a relationship, especially at your age.
    You two should be rooting like rabbits!

    The 5 min thing sounds like pure inexperience. If you two start getting busy a bit more often that should improve.
    Is there any chance he's a bit put off by the fact he doesn't last long & that's part of the reason he's a bit reserved about sex?
    Pretty sensitive issue for us...

    The brother in his room thing is a pain but it sounds like you could make time at your place?

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    I agree with myspace. Have you brought this up to him yet? That may be all that's needed to hit the sheets more often.
    He may just have a smaller libido, but you need to ask yourself if you're ok with that because it might not change. Men typically hit their sexual peak in their 20s.

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