Good sex or good meals and nice household?

If you were to choose a woman with whom you will spend your future and maybe start a family which one would you prefer?
A woman who...

has excellent cooking and "household skills" but is boring in bed 73
is good in bed but has poor cooking and "household skills" 154
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Comments ( 33 )
  • EndlessSuffering

    I would of married a maid if I wanted her to have household skills and good cooking.

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  • howaminotmyself

    I am amazed at how many people think that managing a house is something that requires great skill. It's called life.

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  • nightmare28

    Good sex is better, and you'll find out that fine restaurants are much cheaper than "anything goes" hookers.

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    • Other way around.

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  • FocoUS

    I feel like both of these options are extremely sexist. All a woman's good for is sex and house work?

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    • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

      Maybe the poster just wanted to compare those 2 aspects rather than include personality, intelligence etc etc.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      Exactly. Now you're catching on.

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  • Anime7

    I'd go with the first one definitely. If I'm going to have a family then I'd want someone who has household skills. If she can cook I'd love for her to teach me. Besides homemade meals are the best.

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  • blueberrypancakes

    the first one describes my wife...

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  • nervous1

    if you do it right learning to and cooking together is very sexy. sex and food do mix yea!

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  • I am an amazing cook. Been doin it since i was twelve. So i would rather have a freak in bed.

    I can teach her how to cook and clean later lol.

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  • MParker

    I wouldn't marry a woman that is boring in bed,though the same is true for a woman who can't cook/keep house.My friends joke that i am the first sexist lesbian in existence,my ideal partner is a housewife with a freak flag.On a more personal note (that is off topic completely) If i want a housewife to come home to and i want to take care of her financially,does that make me sexist ? I don't understand that concept.

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    • prasatko

      No, it is not sexist. Some people with simple minds label it as sexist because it is not in line with the basic feminist slogans and they think that whatever is not a part of a feminist slogan must be automatically sexist:).

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      • theaverageatheist

        even sow this post should be directed to both men and women

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  • ccjigsaw

    I sure would be hard to live up to both those standards. There should be middle ground :) Cooks, cleans, not often, but enough, is wild in bed once in a while, but routine sex is bound to happen. Sounds about right.

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  • randypete

    good sex because i can kook

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  • theaverageatheist

    top one,I don't care about clothes and I'm allready the one to clean. so I get go for good sex

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  • Avant-Garde

    How about a little bit of both?

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  • Oh damn I can't vote! >.< Well I would choose good sex.

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  • charli.m

    Most of us are capable of both, you know...

    Though I'd be willing to not do housework.

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    • Sorry no dice, now go clean the toilet.

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      • charli.m

        Ehh...no.

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        • Please clean it?

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          • charli.m

            You made the mess...

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            • Its true my "aim" has been a little off...least I didnt get the cable box again.

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  • anti-hero

    I want both, I am worth it.

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    • dirtybirdy

      Ummm..I have many skills sir. Many. I could fax you my resume if you like. Look it over. Think about it.: D

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      • anti-hero

        I will consider it my dear.

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    • prasatko

      If it is not too personal, have you ever been in a relationship with such a woman (who didn´t lose her enthusiasm for one of these things in the long run)? I mean in real life, not online.

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      • anti-hero

        haha how could anyone do these things online??? Anyway, yes I have. Although I have always been one to help out with both areas.

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        • prasatko

          That´s how it should be, keep the relationship and enjoy all its benefits for you and for her.

          (as for this "online" thing, I know that cooking and sex or cleaning the house cannot be done online, but on different forums some people talk about their "online relationships" with someone whom they never met and I wanted to make it clear that I do not want to hear about this case - "my online gf is good at these things". Apparently not your case, so sorry for the confusion.)

          and thank you for your answer.

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          • anti-hero

            No problem

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