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I was so excited today - I had a date last night and thought everything was great. People even said I was glowing today cause I was so happy - but then I saw my date with some guy cuddling on a couch together. Totally bummed me out - now I'm just miserable...
sometimes, girls who are shy or who are used to hopping from temporary guy to temporary guy arent used to someone being seriously interested in them. Often times, as i've noticed with friends, they will just let a guy cuddle with them cos they dont think anything of it. just another guy at the club.
But if you are really interested in this girl i suggest you take her on another date. the first date is just a baby step, but the next one shows that you want more than a one night stand. :)
If she's any kind of woman, shell get the hint. If not, well then leave her a*s in the pile of drunken men that are already at her feet. You dont need her.
i appologise if this really doesnt have much to do with your situation lol. Just a bit of insight. i dont have much experience in this personally.. cos i am a fan of long relationships, and have only had 2 bfs in the past.. currently still dating the second. But my friends are definately experienced guy hoppers :P lol.
so, dont feel down :)
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if you didn't feel miserable after seeing your date cuddling on the couch with some guy the day after you went out with her, then I'd say there was something wrong with you.
Oh no that's just horrible. Forget about her, you don't want or need a player in your life.
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if you guys shared a drink or something id go get checked for herpes. she sounds like a slut
why cant people just be honest i know what thats like it can always be avoided by being honest but too many people rather bulls...ht you dont need anyone like that around theyl just bring you down long term ...
are you retarded. obviously that will get you and ANYONE else upset. i dont understand why you posted about this. do you really need to ask people if its normal to get upset when the girl you like is with someone else?
tell her what you saw and that it's not going to work out.
If she's with another guy shes not right for you.
I'd personally diagnose you with bipolar depression or teenager. And I'm 18, so I'm not trying to be a patronising cunt.
Well you're not "official" or anything so she can do whatever she wants. What her cuddling with that guy means to her and what it means to you might be completely different. It's normal to feel the way you do, but it's not going to help anything. The only way to set things straight is to communicate.
She's not your wife. You and her just had a date.
Women ALWAYS have at least one backup in the wings.
Us men CAN but SELDOM do the same.
In the past I usually placed all my eggs in one basket like you, until I learnt by getting burnt.
THATS NORMAL IT HAPPENS TO EVERONE EVEN ME SO DONT WORRY THATS LIFE FOR YA....... =D
my mood llways changes by the second but that sounds really bad. maybe you should talk to him/her about it and get there side of the story.
emotions change often thats what makes us human and if they didn't well life would be pretty boring