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I have been in a 'relationship' for almost 2 years, however we never asked each other out so we are not offishal and I find it embaressing, I have talked to him about it but he hasn't asked 'do u want to be my girlfriend'.
Is anyone else in a relationship where it hasn't been made offishal?
Just ask him the fuck out, that will clear all he shit up. :) your welcome
In my case, my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We do refer to each other as being boyfriend and girlfriend, but we never actually asked each other. In some cases, two people can become exclusive without words. It wasn't until a few weeks ago when my boyfriend said that we were "engaged to be engaged" that words were actually spoken about us being official. My response was (jokingly) "What?! I just realized I technically could have gone out and hooked up with whoever I wanted for the past two years... I've been missing out!".
Commitment is sometimes unstated, I guess. It just depends about the level of your relationship, I guess. It is good to actually sit down and discuss it, though.
your relationship is already official. Its been goin on 4 two years. he dosent have 2 ask if your dating already. he already knows ur his girlfriend. just keep datin.:)
PS use a spell checker. In a written medium, spelling like "offishal" is not very becoming.
By that I mean, you weren't sure whether to tell your friend/cousin/whoever that you have a bf, or just a guy you've been seeing, or whatever.
Thought I might not have made that terribly clear.
If it's been going on two years, how is it not official? If he's seeing you exclusively, won't it be a little trivial and stupid, and redundant, to ask? Won't it make you look like you've been fixating on something really stupid and petty?
Talking directly about this is not advsable in my opinion. Maybe you could come in indirectly and say you were talking to someone (your cousin, and old friend, something like that) and weren't sure how to describe him, and say, you know honey you've never officially asked me out! And if he doesn't respond, ask him how he refers to you when you're not around - his gf? Or just his fb?
Don't try to get him to think how you want him to think. Find out what he thinks already and decide for yourself whether that is acceptable. Whatever he thinks after two years isn't going to change.
If u really want it to be official then sit him down and have a serious convo. If he's not into that then move on cuz it's not
Gonna be official
can you please learn to spell. Everyone on this site is supposed to be 18 years or over and I find it very hard to believe that an 18 year old could spell that badly.