Giving or receiving? top or bottom?

What is the most accurate description of your sexual preferences?

receiving oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m female) 3
receiving oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m female) 1
giving oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m female) 3
giving oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m female) 2
no oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m female) 1
no oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m female) 0
receiving oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m male) 2
receiving oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m male) 1
giving oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m male) 5
giving oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m male) 2
no oral sex, bottom during intercourse (I´m male) 0
no oral sex, top during intercourse (I´m male) 0
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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    I can go either way. I can be top or bottom depending on my partner. I am usually on the top.

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    • I guess that those people who really care for their partner´s sexual satisfaction are willing to go either way to fulfill their partner´s desires... That´s why the frequency of sexual activities and sex positions the people usually do may not be an exact reflection of their own preferences.
      That´s fine you´re flexible in this regard, can go either way and be top or bottom depending on your partner. You are usually on the top but is that also your preference? I don´t expect you to answer the question, I just want to point out that the poll is focused mainly on people´s preferences although comments about how these preferences are reflected in their real sex life are welcome as well.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        No it is not. I prefer being the bottom.

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  • fullhouse

    No option for 'Love giving and recieving oral sex, Top (I am a male)??
    I love giving oral to my gf, I think I am addicted to it. Also love recieving, although giving oral turns me on. And I am top..

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    • I guess that there are quite many people who love both giving and receiving oral sex. That´s definitely great. However, I couldn´t include options which involve both giving and receiving because of the aim of this poll which I had in my mind when I created it.
      In short, I want to see how many people prefer to be more or less “passive“ or “active“ during oral sex (to receive or to give oral - we may say with a bit of simplification) but they have different preferences when it comes to intercourse and how many people prefer to be more or less “passive“ or “active“ no matter which sex act it is(oral/intercourse).

      Of course, there is more to sex than the listed options describe but it isn´t possible to include everything in the poll. I realize that sexual activities, sex positions and people´s preferences are more complex and varied, but the simplification was inevitable because of my aim.

      BTW, I have no objections if you want to create similar poll with the options you miss.

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      • fullhouse

        I think I get your point now

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  • pappusharma

    Try adding 69 to the list of polls.

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    • I didn´t include 69 on purpose and there was a reason for that. I couldn´t include it because of the aim of this poll which I had in my mind when I created it. I had to separate the activity of one partner from the activity of the other one so that only one of them is actively performing oral on their partner.

      Here is my explanation:
      In the contex of non-BDSM sex, some people confuse being submissive with being passive and being dominant with being active. However, I think that for example a person with consistently submissive preferences may prefer to be more or less passive during intercourse (let´s say - to be the bottom - because it isn´t necessarily a passivity in a true sense of the word) but to be active during oral sex – i.e. to give oral sex. That shows that being submissive can´t be understood simply as being passive.<BR><BR>Inspite of the fact that this poll is not focused on dominance and submission in the context of non-BDSM sex, I was interested how many people want to be “passive“ or “active“ during oral sex but they have different preferences when it comes to intercourse and how many people prefer to be “passive“ or “active“ no matter which sex act it is(oral/intercourse).

      Of course, there is more to sex than the listed options describe but it isn´t possible to include everything in the poll. I realize that sexual activities or sex positions are more complex and varied, but the simplification was inevitable because of my aim.

      BTW, I have no objections if you want to create similar poll with the options involving “69“ :)

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  • None.

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  • dappled

    I've said it so often on IIN that I think people must be sick of seeing it now. I'm going to stop saying it for a bit.

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