Girls: would you let your boyfriend rim you?

As long as I've been sexually active, I've been exceedingly keen on oral sex. Being that close to the centre of everything that makes a woman a woman is a huge turn on. However, I have also harboured a desire to lick my partners arse in the same way. I finally plucked up the courage to mention the fantasy to my last girlfriend and she just went quiet, and it never got talked about again.

I'm wondering what percentage of women would accept this and whether it's worth the risk of coming across like a weirdo based on my chances of finding a girlfriend who would actually enjoy it.

Furthermore, if your partner did ask to do this, how would you like them to broach the subject? What would make you give it a shot if previously you were sitting on the fence?

I find it disgusting and I'd split up with anyone who asked me this. 12
I don't like the idea, but I wouldn't split up over it. 20
I've thought about it, but decided it isn't for me. 16
I've thought about it, and would try anything once. 111
I've tried it and didn't get much out of it. 28
I've tried it and really enjoyed it. 325
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Comments ( 7 )
  • lickmypussy69

    I love my bf to rim and he likes it when i rim him. We love all aspects of oral sex!

    We are both bi so we often 3 or 4somes with some of his mates or some of mine.

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  • anant_69

    I never talked to her bout it but started cleaning her butthole with a wet wipe one night.. she got the msg I guess but didnt complain.. and i have been a happy ass licker ever since....and oh....she likes it too now...coz i havnmt got any complaints.. ;-).. lol

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  • EnglishLad

    I'd be alright with recieving but i'm not into giving this. Then again, i'd then have to kiss the same girl who just licked my arse, and that would make me wanna puke

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  • Sensate

    The reason she went quiet is probably that she was ashamed. I would be no different. Maybe you have a strapping hot body and would lick any part of yourself without second thought...the fact of the matter is I would also be a little emberassed (I am a guy) to have my own asshole licked, even though i know I would most certainly enjoy it.

    I like giving rimjobs but it depends on the woman. Some woman just have that appearance and are so hot that I would lick out that crack at the end of a warm summer night without second thought. Its dirty and its delicious. Other women to whom I am attracted to, and share a bed with, dont always have the same....lets say, "Ass-appeal" and I wil only rim them if I am extremely turned on and probably whilst in the shower.

    The main thing about the whole emberassed thing (and this goes for eating out pussy too) is showing your woman you love to do it and you love them to enjoy themselves. I love it when a woman feels safe enougth to relax like that with me.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Hi, my best advice to you, would be if you really want to but if you're perhaps a big apprehensive suggesting it,. the main reason she would probably be worried about it, would be her worrying about the cleanliness (she wouldn't want you to taste her poop).. however, let's say if you take a romantic shower for two, and i'm assuming you already give her oral sex.. at a particularly hot moment, after she's been well washed everywhere, gently stimulate her in the front and as she's getting worked up, little by little start touching her more and more in the back and take note of her body language. Try to read if she's into it.. BE PAIENT !! baby steps.. good luck! ;)

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  • TotalAspie

    The anus contains harmful bacteria, and cannot be sterilized. However, I have lightened my stance on rimming since it can be done safely.

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  • cleverusername

    I am a guy, and want to comment.
    I would like to try rimming a girl as well. I would be open to her rimming me too.

    Now that I have thought about it, I have a suggestion. When you eat her cookies, give her brownie a little action. Don't use your licker, or your kicker, just your lubed ticklers. Don't go crazy on it. (Fortunately you have one of these in the home tool box if you would like to study before the test, JS) If you made her orgasm while poking her brownie, i feel like she would be much more open to you rimming her.

    I would think just because she went quiet doesn't mean no, it could just mean she was kind of embarrassed by the question. You were there, use your own judgement.

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