Girls would you except a relationship like this?

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Girls would you except or have you been in this kind of relationship before?
A relationship where your boyfriend is permitted to sleep around, so long as he informs you of the girls and is safe, ie uses protection. But you are not permitted to sleep with any other guys. Though you might sleep with other girls and possibly have threesomes with your boyfriend and another girl but you must have his permission to even sleep with the girls.

I know this relationship seems very unbalanced and unfair, but relationships are not about each person getting the SAME thing they are about each person getting the thing they WANT. So as long as both parties are fine with this I see no problem.

Anyways Girls would you except or have you been in this kind of relationship before?

I've been in this kind of relationship 4
I would be ok with this 11
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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    No. Are you kidding? You sound like a prostitute to a pimp lol

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Why the Hell would I want to be with a no good, two timing cheat? I'm not attracted to or interested in other women so this sort of "arrangement" sounds like a complete waste of time to me. I'd much rather be alone!

    The really awesome thing is that the man I've started seeing basically told me that he refuses to tolerate any kinda polymory or swinging whatsoever. I never mentioned that bullshit to him, because it's not on my radar unless someone else mentions it. He told me his ex was a cheat, and wanted to get him into that "lifestyle" which is why he dumped her nasty ass. Additionally straight couples have approached him, wanting him to "play" with him, and he's told them to get lost. Words cannot express how much my partner's disinterest and disgust for poly and swinging turns me on, because it makes me feel safe and secure to be with someone who shares my beliefs and sexual tastes.

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    • mysistersshadow
      8 years ago

      I think its good that you have found someone you click with thats great. I don't think that its good to paint how some ppl chose to live negatively becos its not to your taste. It seemed like most of what you wanted to do was bash on ppls ideas that you don't like the problem is that you make it sound like polyamory and swinging are either the same thing or sit right next to each other. There aren't the same thing and they are at different points on a spectrum not side by side. I probly sound defensive and I am a little becos I've experimented with different things becos that how I discover what I like I try it. I don't think that makes me nasty I think it makes me open minded.

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  • Ms.Dempsy
    8 years ago

    I'll pass.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    I'm sure lots of women on here have been in relationships with controlling men but the smart ones among us got out of them

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      I know that's right, girl!

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    • mysistersshadow
      8 years ago

      We don't even know which of the 3 ppl in the story is the OP.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        True

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    To be fair if everyone is happy then there is no problem its just that most women would see that as a problem. I know its possible to have some pretty unbalanced relationships and make them work at least for a while. I don't think its for everyone but I think if your the right person for it and it makes you happy then you should do it. I don't think most ppl have the emotional strength to handle relationships that are unbalanced at least against them.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Why would someone want to waste time in an unbalanced relationship when said person could hold out for a balanced relationship with someone else later on down the line? It's like if someone said to me I can have a gallon of milk for $1.50 or a quart of milk for $1.50, both the gallon and the quart are the same grade and quality of milk and the same brand. Obviously I would pick the gallon of milk, because why would I want less for the same amount of money? Seriously, why... why waste time time, money and effort with less than when I can hold out for someone who gives me back equal to what I give?

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      • mysistersshadow
        8 years ago

        I can't offer a justification for it just telling what I've seen. Maybe its becos what they get is some thing they can't get another way.

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          I don't know, maybe they're desperate.

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          • mysistersshadow
            8 years ago

            The kinds of things I'm talking about aren't easy commodities to come by like milk its more like a 6 armed jade llama statue thats 4 stories tall you can't find that just anywhere so if you really want it then you do what you have to do. I know the whole milk and statue thing is a weird comparison so to be a little more accurate I'm talking about some of the relationships in the fetish community. So like I said its not for every one but there are some unusual ppl out there.

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            • RoseIsabella
              8 years ago

              I guess that's on them, but I'd rather be alone... Hell, I'd probably rather drop dead than share a romantic partner, it's just my personality, and what is right for me. There's nothing that anyone could ever offer me that would make an open relationship, polyamory and or swinging an option for me. Knowing and standing by my own personal feelings and beliefs gives me a certain inner peace and serenity to which the moral relativism of our current culture can never compare!

              Truthfully I have, do now and always will believe that that type of relationship is a bunch of bullshit. In fact one of the biggest turn ons for me when I met my current beau was that he dumped his ex wife for her repeated infidelity, and that he immediately told me that he's completely disgusted and turned off by open relationships. He told me his ex wanted to have the kind of relationship that OP is asking about, and if I had any interest in sharing of any kind it would be an absolute deal breaker. I feel very happy, secure and grateful to have met someone who shares my morals, values and feelings.

              For me there's nothing more beautiful, intimate, romantic and loving than having a one and only!

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      • ItchyScrotum
        8 years ago

        Maybe the quart is CHOCOLATE milk.

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          Nope.

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  • Hergayhubby
    8 years ago

    Sounds like a cuckqueen relationship (Google it) my wife and started as a cuckold relationship which slowly overtime evolved to me being a sissy hubby that prefers cock and cum to pussy unless it is filled with cum. My wife is a big cock bisexual. Her and I haven't had hetero sex together in 5 years.

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