Girls: which means more to you?

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Ladies:
While having sex in your loving relationship, both matter, but which of these two things ultimately matters MORE to you?

Being made to feel sexually desirable by your partner: he wants you more than anything / anyone else,

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Having your partner give you an orgasm via his stimulation {not your own}.

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I'm a guy and want to know the results. 134
I'm a virgin. 65
My partner's ability to make me feel sexually desirable. 81
My partner's ability to give me an orgasm. 34
Other. 10
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    If I wanted a guy who could give me an orgasm, i would be shit outta luck. So I'm going to go with the other one.

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    • thegypsysailor
      10 years ago

      "If I wanted a guy who could give me an orgasm, i would be shit outta luck" Gee, could it have anything to do with your attitude?

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Maybe. I think it has to do more with my experiences though, which in turn gives me a rather pessimistic attitude.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          That sounds terrible...**eats sandwich**

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            What kinda sammich is dat?
            :-)
            *tummy rumbles*

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago

              A turkey on multi grain bread bought from the three star walmart deli.....lol

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Both of course!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Of course both matter! :P

      Which one matters MORE; as in, what's the hierarchy for you.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        I think if a man deeply loved and desired me he would naturally want to satisfy me and therefore as a result learn to do so. I'm single but open to meeting the right person with whom I could share love and a desire to please one another as an expression of that love rather than desires that stem only from lust and infatuation.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      10 years ago

      I like powersharting in my pants the most

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        I'm really more of a farter myself. A good silent but violent one released in public is always fun.

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        • robbieforgotpw
          10 years ago

          Farting is great. There was a past user who wrote the following so I cannot take credit for it:

          Farting farting farting is such fun
          Come fart with me
          We'll have smell bums
          Poot parp trap

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    • VirgilManly
      10 years ago

      Ah, lay down sexy kitten and let me release your inner freak.
      ;)

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    If I were a sexual person I think I would go with the ability to orgasm one. I've never had any desire to be desired but, then again, I don't desire sex either, and then, on the side of that, I'm more of a lithromantic. Perhaps it would be different if I were sexual but I can definitely say, speaking physically, I do enjoy looking at nice faces and the way they make me feel. So my answer is no, I don't need to be desired. That all seems pointless to me. If I were sexual, I think I'd be in it for the orgasm.

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  • KittehGoesRawr
    10 years ago

    I would say the first one, because there has been many times that my boyfriend didn't make me orgasm, but just the thought of him wanting me, and getting off because of me is a huge ego booster for me.

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    Meh. I choose orgasm. I can find other ways to feel hot. Like wearing too much makeup. lol

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    Why would someone want to feel sexually desirable. They are already with you so at some point they are going to have sex with you. Why does being sexually appealing matter at that point?

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    • purpletrain
      10 years ago

      I think what the post is trying to say is that there's a difference between your partner just going through the motions, enjoying your body but not really the experience with you, making it seem like they're having sex with you just because (even if they can make you orgasm) and your partner making you feel like you are the only one they want. Anyone could go out and have sex with anybody and the basics would be more or less the same but there's something about being with you specifically that they want. Experiences where you're made to feel desirable are a lot more passionate/romantic.

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