Girls, what's your opinion on an inexperienced guy?

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I'm 20 years old and going to be 21 in August. I've never had any confidence in my entire life, especially when it comes to dating. I'm trying to work on it to improve myself and build up my confidence but I feel like no matter how much I improve, I will just get rejected by every girl because I'm inexperienced. I haven't had any dating experience at all, I've never been on a date and I've never even had any friends that are girls. I just feel like the odds are stacked against me when it comes to turning this around, but I would like some input from girls on here.

I don't think inexperience is a problem and it's not a turn off 32
It might or might not be a problem depending on the reason 13
I don't think inexperience is bad, but I wouldn't want to be his first 5
I don't have an opinion on this 7
I think inexperience is bad and it would be a turn off or deal breaker 1
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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    I would actually prefer an inexperienced guy considering I, myself, am inexperienced.

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    there is a beauty to inexperience because you are on the frontier of so many new experiences. don't be fearful, embrace these.
    Trust me getting old and feeling like the product of all your experience makes you wiser but also takes a toll on your heart and can change you in ways you would never imagine.
    Open up. Dive in. Be free.

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  • Incomplet
    9 years ago

    From my experience, the ones with no experience tend to put in more effort. It's kinda cute.

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  • apersonlol
    10 years ago

    I actually would like a inexperienced guy because that means he was waiting for the right girl and the girl might even think you were waiting for her

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I think the main reason a girl wouldn't want a inexperienced guy is that they might be too clingy, which is not always true.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Enthusiasm and a desire to please are more impressive than experience.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    10 years ago

    I think its kinda cute. I actually fantasized the other day about being with an inexperienced virgin. To be someone's first appeals to me. My boyfriend and I were both inexperienced in serious relationships when we met each other. Although, he was not a virgin like I was. We've grown to be young adults together the past years and I love him more and more each day.

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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago

    Cute, but i am "inexperienced" too.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    I think for most people, it's not the inexperience itself that's the turn-off, but rather how it manifests itself. Although some still might get turned-off for inexperience in itself, but all that means is that those people aren't a match for you.

    Really your past history isn't any of their business until you start to get to know them anyway - no matter how long or short that history is. If they ask just say that you're single now and have been for a while, and leave it at that.

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  • Superstorm
    10 years ago

    Bump

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