Girls should make the first move ?
Im a pretty shy person dont some of you think it would be nice if a girl made the first move :P
| yes | 71 | |
| no | 23 | |
| Grow a pair | 41 | |
| had a girl make the first move and loved it | 30 |
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dappled
Women nearly always make the first move. It's just that the first move is generally a very small, subtle one, intended to get the man to make a more decisive move.
Having said that, I think a woman with the confidence to make that first decisive move is kind of sexy.
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MissClaire
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dappled
Hehe, it's not always great. I met this woman once in a big group of people and we just clicked massively. Our body language adjusted and we were pretty much facing each other, excluding the rest of the group. Soon people were commenting and making jokes about us. She was very, very pretty, a bit dippy, funny, clever, geeky, sciencey, self-effacing, loved animals, was a veggie, and wore loads of purple. There was what I can only describe as electricity. Sparks were flying off both of us. It was the kind of liaison people dream of. A once in a lifetime.
Then she told me which nights she wasn't working. I thought it was strange but I ignored it. 30 minutes later she told me again. I was really confused. When she told me yet again, I thought she had some kind of strange obsession with when she was off work and I went off her a bit. It was only much later that I realised she was hinting that I should ask her if she wanted to do something with me, like go for a meal, or to the pictures. She was hinting (quite broadly) that I should ask her on a date. And dimwitted dappled missed it completely. I saw her six months after. The electricity was there again, but she was with her new boyfriend. Then she moved to Canada.
Sometimes I can be really stupid. :)
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MissClaire
Sorry to hear that, too bad she didn’t just ask you; personally I don’t think see anything wrong with the idea. I think there is this notion amongst women that it is a bit masculine to ask a man out and it may just intimidate. I suppose it is a little to do with fear of rejection, just as a man fears rejection under the same circumstances.
So women all over the world continue to twirl their hair and lean in with the hopes of sparking some sort of ...... well whatever they are seeking at the time lol.
Well, at least she moved to Canada, all the best women are there ;)
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Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
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KokoroComplex
I think girls can make the first move just as equally as guys or vise versa. To be honest, I'm to shy to make the first move, so I wait for the guys... which is why I'm single ;n;. What? Guys can be shy, too :|.
It's like, who opens the door or pays the bill at a date? Does it matter? (Though, my rule is whoever did the inviting pays the bill).
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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
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stop worrying about which gender should claim responsibility. why should the organs between your legs determine who should make the first move?
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Ldizzy1234
Guys should make the first move. Somehow I got into this subject one day with my parents, and I told them that I wanted the guy to make the first move, because I feel like he's the more dominant figure. Well, that and because I'm more of a traditional type of girl when it comes to that stuff. My dad laughed at me and said, "That went out the window a long time ago! Nobody does that anymore. Sometimes its the women who need to make the first move." And my friends are always telling me, 'its not 1920 anymore'! I think its pathetic. The guys need to step up and do it.
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Ryan556
I was a relly she kid and am as an adult my gf made the first move she kissed me and I asked her out
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dkrig
As much as I can be a bit of a preachy feminist on occasion, I always wait for a guy to make the first move, despite being fairly outgoing. I think I'd just be afraid of intimidating a guy if I made a move.
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gemgem
girls should not make the first move its more romatic if a guy does it and it shows that at least he has balls. to all the men ouut thier who want the girl to make the first move: grow a pair.
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RockerRoseanne
It would depend on the girl really. I'm quite a shy girl and I doubt I'd ever make the first move.
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MisterPanic
If a girl makes the first move a guy will either like it and be more confident to make the next move, or he isnt interested and will probably think of it as somethimg incidental and not make a big deal about it. If a guy makes the first move it's obvious he likes the girl, which makes it harder for a guy to make the first move.
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tentacleTherapist
Well I prefer guys doing that. Sorry but I find that to be a major pussy-whipped guy if he won't even ask me something. Though as a female, it would feel nice asking someone out.
Knowing me and I'm socially awkward, I'd probably say something like, "Want to go out sometime? So-and so's going blah blah blah..." it's good to be a challenge, so I'd offer. If he says yes I'd be with some of my friends, and eventually we'd get closer until he asks me out on a one-on-one date. If he doesn't ask, I'll assume he's not interested and well move on.
Now I could tell if he's interested but too scared to ask, in which case I'd openly ask, "Wanna go on a fuckin' date already?" if he says no then he's either odd or seriously not interested, if he said yes I'd call him a pussy and tell him to hurry up.
It sucks when you like someone and you're not sure if they like you back - especially if THEY'RE not sure they like you back.
Then you're both confuckeled on what to do, but too scared to do anything.
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[Old Memory]
Whats up with all these girl making the first move questions?
Anyhow I'm really shy as well and I never make the first move. I wait for the guy but in the end you can tell that the guy sometimes actually waits on the girl to do it. If guys were comfortable with that I guess I would do it but then again I don't want to seem desperate.
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Katywompus
I have a few times. I did when I met the dude I ended up marrying. I was the one who saw a guy he worked with,and was like, hey, who's that sexy man you work with? When we met, I was the one who went in the for the kill, I mean kiss. It was awesome. He was hooked :) I don't share these lips with just anyone ;)
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panvicka
i am a girl and i wouldnt make the first move, but i can smile nicely on you... or play with my hair, touching my breast... so you dont have to be shy, just go for it ;)
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plokijuh
I think both should, because a guy may just sit there meing shy and a girl may like him back so what do you do then? I see your point.
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Yumazing
I made the first move and we've been together for two years now. Organs shouldn't choose who likes who and who should do what.
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