Girls only please - why do you girls 'all' cheat?

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Girls please answer truthfully.

I'm having a really hard time trusting you girls because not only have I been cheated on a few times but I've always been able to seduce any girl, anywhere.
If I liked her and flirt with her, it's on. It doesn't matter if she's married or had a bf. Girls don't seem to care and they cheat so easily, so quickly. Keep in mind I've never knowingly hooked up with a married girl or a girl that has a boyfriend (I'm not a bad guy) -I find out after or during they've got a man because they accidentally let it slip or in some cases a friend of mine kinda knows her and knows she's married/or has a comitted bf and when my friend(s) find out we hooked up they tell me. I do break it off when I find out and I get upset with the girl for being dishonest with me and cheating on her man. I scold them and say what they're doing is totally wrong and they need to stop it and I let them knnow how disappointed I am of them.

Anyway this has been going on for my entire life and these are not only little teenage girls.These are women: teens, 20's, and now sometimes even 30's.

On one hand I'm always flattered these girls so easily jump into bed with me because they really like me so much and I'm a great flirt and great looking guy. On the other hand my belief system in you girls is shattered because "You're 'all' easy sluts" and I can't trust you. Sorry no better way to put it. I'm heart broken over this because I know one day I'll want a serious long term relationship and eventually marriage. I have zero problems falling in love and being 100% committed to a girl except that I don't think I can trust her because there's not a girl around that I couldn't screw if I wanted to and I so often hear that someone's wife/gf cheated on him.

Even my best guy friend's wives/gfs come on to me when they step out for a store run :(
Of course I don't fuck them. I try to treat others the way I want to be treated.

Am I taking things too seriously?

My sister knows this stuff happens to me (her friends always tried jumping on me too) and she told me, if you never cheat on a girl (and I don't) and you never hook up with girls that are in relationships what if you meet an amazing girl better than your girlfriend - how are you going to get her and be with her?
I told her well, I'd break up with my girlfriend and I'd expect the other girl to break up with her husband/boyfriend so we could be together but I don't cheat or hook up with cheaters. She said that's not reality, girls aren't like that. They want the security of the guy they're with and then they want to upgrade while still having someone to fall back on if it doesn't work out so they cheat. They are very selfish and dishonest and they don't care. She also said girls often cheat so if I'm not cheating I could be wasting my life with a girl that's been cheating on me the whole time so I if I meet another girl I like more I should just cheat on my gf (whoever that may be) because she's going to cheat on me when she wants to.
She said that's how most girls are. They aren't very honest and they're always looking to upgrade or try something new because they think it's 'exciting' and so they cheat easily.

Wow. Even my own sister is telling me most girls are cheating sluts and I shouldn't trust them and I should cheat/upgrade if I meet a better girl.

Keep in mind right now I'm single so I have no gf - not even dating anyone so it's not like my sister doesn't like my gf and is trying to break us up.

She tells me I should hook up with any girl I want and I shouldn't care if she's married or has a bf because I don't know how their relationship is or if her guy is cheating on her or what. I should just do what I want and have fun if she wants to.

She told me a lot of girls are just with guys to have a boyfriend / regular sex and have some security/companionship. It doesn't mean the girl really loves or even really likes the guy it's just the guy that happened to court her or she chose at the time to be with until she finds someone better. They're often just using him like he's using her for sex, hangout whatever. She said girls know they're not in love with these guys and that's probably why they cheat so easily.

She said she knows I'm an very good person, very moral and honest. She said most guys and girls are not like that. They are very selfish and have no problems lying, cheating or doing whatever they want.

Girls is that how you really are?

I've always tried to believe most girls are faithful and trustworthy good people and want a serious committed relationship but yet my own reality is they are lying cheating sluts :(

I feel like I'll never be able to trust anyone ever and internally I'm terrified I'll get my heart broken when I fall in love with a girl again and want to get serious or married.

I'm also disappointed with myself because almost all other guys I know cheat and they don't care about it. They don't even care one bit if they cheat on their wife or gf. Somehow internally I'm different. I do care and it sucks. I often wish I was more like them but I know better and I don't ever want to hurt someone and destroy their trust, especially someone I love and have committed to which is why I've never cheated.

Honestly life would be so much easier if I were shallow (like others) and didn't have a conscience and I could just cheat without caring.

I also feel a little upset that I'm so faithful I've let so many hot girls go because I was in a relationship and I didn't cheat/upgrade and then later my relationship ends anyway because I realize she's the wrong girl for me so I break up with her.

Are there any honest faithful girls anywhere and how can I tell she's not a cheater?
OR
Are you all little horny sluts pretending to be good girls until you can get a new upgrade?
I know some girls swear they didn't plan on cheating but then they do.

Do you girls just marry a guy to get a free ride/house and have it planned you're going to be cheating on him your entire life?

How is it that you can really be in love with a guy and commit to him then so easily fuck some other 'new' guy or past bf because he's flirting with you?
How can you be so shallow and easily emotionally weak?

When I was younger girls were not this cock crazy and unethical, what happened?

Am I being stupid for not hooking up with hot married girls or girls that have bf's but they want me and I want them?
Should I just go for it?

Keep in mind I'm a great guy looking for a long term faithful trustworthy realtionship but every girl I meet is willing to cheat on her man so now I have trust issues and am very disappointed with you ladies. Sadly if there are any good faithful girls out there the cheating sluts ruin it for good guys like me who want a great relationshp.

So tell me girls, why do you cheat?

Please take time to answer all the questions and do so honestly, thanks!

:(

I've cheated because I love getting laid by new guys. 15
I've cheated because I fell in love with a new guy. 6
I would love to cheat but know it's wrong so I don't. 7
Ok, I'm a little slut and I cheat often because it's fun, but Shhh! 13
I've never cheated on any guy and never will. 56
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Comments ( 27 )
  • MissesAnonymous23
    10 years ago

    Aw where did my comments go? Can't handle the truth?

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Truth? What truth?

      You two girls are mostly just spamming.

      I do appreciate your persistence though.

      :)

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      • imadragon
        10 years ago

        I actually tried to help this guy, but this is my third comment here now.

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        • MissesAnonymous23
          10 years ago

          Haha join the club. There's no helping him. He's set in his ways. It's funny, I remember seeing him say he's been in 35 committed relationships, and 2 people have cheated on him. I say 2 out of 35 isn't too bad! I can't see how that made him hate women as much as he does, though.

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            "I can't see how that made him hate women as much as he does, though."

            I don't hate girls at all. I love em!

            I just can't trust em!

            Yes, only 2 girls in about 35 have cheated on me that I know of but other guy's wives and gfs try to get on me when the guy isn't around and that's the huge problem.

            I can only remember one girl in my life that I tried to fuck on the same night I met her that didn't want to. Well she also wanted to but for some reason she said we can't. Maybe it was her period, herpes, who knows but the point is almost all girls everywhere I go are cheating sluts or just sluts!

            So tell me girls, how in the world can I ever trust any of you in a committed relationship if you're so easy and so willing to fuck a guy you just met?

            So the problem is y'all are cheaters and sluts! Makes it hard for a great guy to trust you girls! :(

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            • MissesAnonymous23
              10 years ago

              "I don't hate girls at all. I love em!"

              "So the problem is y'all are cheaters and sluts! "

              You say all girls are cheating sluts. Why're you complaining if you love girls? You're not making any sense. Oh and by the way, obviously we're not all cheating sluts because I have many friends, and they're all great girlfriends or wives who've never cheated. Your argument is awful.

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      • MissesAnonymous23
        10 years ago

        If you didn't delete our comments you could look back and jog your memory.

        But thanks :D

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          LOL, naaaaahhhhhh it's ok. Right now I'm super busy and just got back into town.

          Hope things are going well.

          :)

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  • Love11
    10 years ago

    You're lookin' at the wrong type of girls. You should probably just know them long enough to know for sure that they wouldn't cheat on you! Obviously whoever you date tends to be the real devious type. If that makes any sense.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      "You're lookin' at the wrong type of girls. You should probably just know them long enough to know for sure that they wouldn't cheat on you! Obviously whoever you date tends to be the real devious type. If that makes any sense."

      UGH. You people aren't getting it.

      By far most of the cheating sluts I've met were OTHER GUY'S GIRLS.

      NOT MINE ;)

      Do you understand now? The girls want to cheat WITH ME not on me.
      I've only had 2 girls cheat on me out of like 35 or something like that but I've never been married or had a relationship go longer than 2 years because I get bored and unhappy.

      Thanks for the reply.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    OP should become a writer, editor or some shit like that...

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  • nakedman
    10 years ago

    good god u rite loads

    XD

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  • I_Hate_Cats
    10 years ago

    I can only speak for myself...Up to a certain point in my life I had never and would never cheat. I had opportunities aplenty and there was a few I really wanted to take but I didn't. The only reason I didn't was because I was brainwashed into the whole 'monogamy is right' deal.

    There came a moment when I realized that I had never thought FOR MYSELF how I wanted to run my love life. I personally think the whole monogamy thing is a scam. It's against our nature (obviously). Why are most of us taught that a relationship should always be one man and one woman? Movies, tv, religion and your government all drill this into you but is it what's really right for YOU? How many people take the time to think it over for themselves?

    Once I figured it out I was able to be open and happy. I think we as a society need to change our attitude towards polyamory.

    PS: if you write back don't write a book.

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  • resipiscence
    7 years ago

    A novel, blaming an entire gender for your trust issues... Hm, where have I heard that...?.... OH! I GOT IT! You're being Elliott Rodgers!
    Blamey McBlamerson!
    Bitchin, moaning and pre-programmed to emit negativity and re-live old relationship patterns isn't cute on anyone.

    "No, I refuse to do [your favorite activity of all time], because my ex used to always [do/say][something low self-esteem affirming] when we would [do your favorite activity]" leads to, "HOW COME YOU NEVER ASK ME TO [ACTIVITY] ANYMORE???? NO, I WOULDNT GO! YOU KNOW I HATE IT! ITS JUST NICE TO BE ASKED!"

    Gross. But normal.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Seeing that women are natural lairs your will never know why they cheat.

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  • TheBefore
    9 years ago

    Its the exact same for us girls, one sex doesn't cheat more than the other, its just the person you choose to date, and I think that you shouldn't just have sex right away cause if the girl says ok and you two haven't been dating for very long than that is one sign that she is probably a slut, cause good girls don't do that. Same for guys. Btw I think your a very sexist asshole, although I have only cheated once that was way back when I first started dating, I was 12 and I'd never done it again since then.

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  • Cherrybombpieee
    10 years ago

    Cuz u the guy doesnt give enough dick or cuz we girls got bored and theres no more pazzaz

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  • White__October
    10 years ago

    Jesus man, couldn't you use a little less text to ask your question? I mean, do you really expect me to read all that?

    I've read the first part of your question and I think I can answer it. Yes, I do cheat on guys. Why? Because I like it! I don't feel guilty about it at all and I don't mind if they cheat on me either.

    I don't want to have just one guy in my life I have to do everything with, I'd become bored with him in a matter of time. I just need a change every once in a while.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Honestly, to an extent, I can see where you are coming from. I don't know if this is intended for troll purposes or not, as it seems to be a lot about your ego, and the wordings you use makes it somewhat sound like fiction, however I have observed similar things.

    My best friend's girlfriend tried to get with me.
    A married female flirted and tried to send me nudes and wanted me to go to theirs.
    An old friend that liked this guy, got with him, then was spending time with this other guy which led to her cheating. Again, tried to get with me, however I obviously declined due to her history.
    So many other cases. So many females I have known have had some sort of past with such actions, and even when it was me they were trying to get with, it irritated me.

    What irritates me, though is how proud so many of them are by cheating. It's disgusting. Even the ones that act all sad and ashamed tend to also brag about it to their friends (had it happen to me).

    I personally do think more women than guys cheat. I have noticed this happen too often with the women I either know or have been around enough to know have done it, where as there is only one guy I know that has cheated.

    Personally, and I do not know if this may be part of the reason why, but I just can't find that much interest in women relationship wise, I just can't. Even if I was not that apathetic towards love, I doubt I would take much interest in females relationship wise, as there are just so many more untrustworthy ones out there than I could of imagined

    It is irritating, and I can only imagine how much more irritating it must be for guys looking for relationships with women. What's also very irritating is that you can't even trust the ones that act like it is disgraceful, because the ones that cheat do the exact same thing. Hell, they even insult others on how much of an insult to humans they are for cheating when they have done it more than the person they criticize.

    It's just irritating. I personally do believe that women are less trustworthy. Ofcourse, not every woman, and not that they are always abusing trust, just that females tend to be untrustworthy more.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      EXACTLY.

      Thank's for posting the truth man, too bad these other females are so blind.

      It's because they are female and not males which know how to seduce and/or are naturally attractive that these females have no clue.

      I think cheating sluts really harm our society :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    So here's an update :

    Basically I don't care anymore.

    I'm no longer going to protect some idiot guy.

    If a married girl or girl with a bf wants to fuck and I like her, I'm down.

    I no longer care about being in a committed relationship either. If I get into one and the girl cheats on me who cares, there's plenty more out there and I can always get em.

    This site has convinced me what trash guys are so I'm not wasting my life missing great opportunities fucking hot girls trying to protect them.

    Instead of dating one girl I'll just fuck 3 to 4 and rotate em around so I won't get attached to any of them.

    Makes life much easier.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I've known heaps of guys that would never cheat, we aren't all trash.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    So to try and get an idea of how you girls really are I checked out online ads for girls seeking guys and what I found was so many girls willing to cheat on their man it was disgusting.

    Below are a few samples :

    "Looking for discreet fuck no strings attached. Must meet at your place."

    "Big cock wanted. Clean single white female. No strings attached. You can fuck me from behind or anyway you want, available fridays must keep secret."

    "Bored of my guy because he doesn't want morning sex. I can come to you some mornings, let's hook up."

    And more.

    It's so disappointing.
    So many sluts and I feel bad for the guys they're with.

    How can I ever trust a female?

    The nice ads say nice things like
    "Looking for a great guy for long term committed relationship don't contact for random sex."

    However these posts are only somewhat more reassuring because remember the reality is this girl wants to be in a great relationship and 'right now' she doesn't plan on cheating but I know from experience girls are super easy to seduce and they do cheat when horny. So when this girl is in a relationship and some other hot smooth talking flirty guy (like me) comes along she'll probably drop her panties and cheat just like all the other little hussies even though she right now doesn't even believe that. You girls are so easily led by your emotions, it's scary.

    Why are you girls so ready to selfishly ruin your relationships and do it just because you're bored?

    WTF?

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