Girls: older men perving on you as a kid?

Ladies, when you were very underage (13 or less), did any of the following men try to engage in anything remotely sexual with you:

Your dad's friends
Your friend's dads
Friend's older brothers
Teacher
Another school employee besides a teacher
Babysitter

Please comment.

Yes, one of those men did. 51
Yes, more than one of those men did. 34
Yes, and he did do something sexual with me. 71
Yes, I was forcibly raped by one or more of those men. 54
No, none of those men ever tried anything. 162
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Comments ( 59 )
  • theaverageatheist

    none of those men tried anything.
    but i remember walking home after school one day when i was 10 or 11, and some guy look at me in asexual way and said -hey sweetie do you whant me to give you a lift-...
    so I looked sraight up at him -who the fuck are you?! my taxi driver?- and walked off.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      irony... "asexual way" or "a sexual way"
      interesting how a little space can change the entire meaning.

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      • Thewomanizer

        omg so true! never thought of that before lol, oh and btw you seem rather wise, iv seen previous comments from you and respect the fact that you give good advice.

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      • theaverageatheist

        well spotted ;)

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

          heh. kinda like "therapist" vs "the rapist" =)

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  • shuggy-chan

    Fapfapfap

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  • PoeticDreamer

    Not that I know of, but a lot of that sort of stuff started happening once I was 13+

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  • Littlebadgirl

    Yes, in fact he is at my place now. I know he won't touch me now but still I hate him so much, I can hardly stand seeing him.

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    • Itmakesmehard

      Let him fuck you, if he wants you why not, or just tease him wear some little hot pants with your gash showing through, just be a slut :)

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      • Littlebadgirl

        Ew just... no. Why the hell would I want an old perverted dude to fuck me?

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        • Itmakesmehard

          Because you a little bad girl arnt you :)

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      • zariena28

        Agreed

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        • Itmakesmehard

          Exactly!!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Crazy.

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  • NotFloydzie

    Never.

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  • kelili

    Nobody

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  • EAT_IT

    I like them older because they cook better.

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  • zariena28

    It's pretty common for this to happen to at least half of the world's females.
    It did happen to me, and many of my friends. None of us have any long term mental problems, because we do not over-dramatize it and seek attention and pity over something so trivial.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Where do you live that this is normal? bunch of sick bastards.

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  • crazythat

    Just wanted to say that when I was about thirteen and at camp, me and a group of girls were kinda having a "tell us your secrets" party. I was speechless when many of the girls said NOTHING like this ever happened to them. Every single example given, plus more, had tried stuff with me! Some, but not all, were successful. Yes it did have an effect on my relationships as I grew older. I am now married to a much older man and feel like these things contribute to my desire to be with him. I am very attracted to him sexually, but I wonder if that would have been different had I not been "conditioned" as a child???

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    • onehandinthehoneyjar

      dam you must be a hot little number if all them dudes were after you

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      • Mersaphe

        rofl

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  • Ripper666

    no offence to anyone on this thing that has been raped. But according to these figures provided it is perfectly normal for older men to molest children before they become teens, I dont believe it to be but 81 people say they were and only 69 say they weren't.

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    • It's a sad truth that this day and age, it IS pretty normal.

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

    My creepy fucking uncle always grabbed my butt when I was nine -.-

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  • kaki

    my uncle's friends and guys i don't even know and one teacher

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  • Avant-Garde

    Not that I know of, but then I again I do remember this time where I was in at the gas station with my grandfather. We were waiting inline for something and there were these two supposedly teenage African boys. They were talking about some crude stuff that I didn't understand and kept looking at me. There were other people in the line and they all seemed really uncomfortable and my grandfather got angry and told me that they were talking about me. They wouldn't stop and I can't remember if the other people did anything, but my grandfather angrily told me to leave and to the car and wait with my grandmother. So I did and he came back a while after and I think he was still angry about it. But I'm relieved he told me to go otherwise my naive self would've stayed there.

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  • x1frosty16

    Stepdad

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Not really, we did have one kinda creepy history teacher who liked checking out the girls in middle school. -.-

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  • LilyAmongTheThorns

    I got this a lot as a kid but not from any family members or personal acquaintances, but I think mostly it's because where I grew up, it's much different than Western cultures.

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  • dirtybirdy

    A teacher at school was a major perv. He finally got fired.
    A friends older cousin had a thing for girls way too young for him. He was 18. I was 12.

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    • zariena28

      18 yr old boy liking a 12 yr old girl is not weird.
      He did not like you purposely because you were 12, he liked you probably because you looked attractive. Not because you were young. He was also young.
      Boys are not matured at 18. Girls are.

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      • dirtybirdy

        I'm fully aware of all different maturity levels of 18 year old boys and girls. I am also very familiar with kids around the age of 12 and for an 18 year old to have any interest in them sexually is beyond disgusting. You are entitled to your opinion however wrong I think, or know, it is. I did not elaborate on what happened because I don't want to. He did a bit more than just like me or find me attractive and it was not ok.

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        • shuggy-chan

          Urge to kill is strong

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        • zariena28

          You never even once mentioned sexual attraction in your original post. So your comeback is not appreciated.
          Having said that, i do agree his sexual actions (if there were any) is not right. This should have been told to him.

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          • dirtybirdy

            The post itself asked if a man tried to engahe in anything "remotely sexual" so I didn't feel the need to specify. What about my 'comeback' was so bad? Because I feel your opinion is wrong? I believe it is wrong and judging by all the answers you've given on this site, you are'nt quite right in the head. That's also just my opinion but I'd rather not take advice from someone who condones molesting children and having sex with dogs. I highly regret looking at your profile.

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            • zariena28

              The post did .. but you did not.
              I was replying to you, not to the post. As stated, you did not mention sexual attraction.

              And no, i was not giving you any advice.

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      • onehandinthehoneyjar

        6 negative points. just goes to show you how stupid and brainwashed people still are. what zarien says here is simply the truth.

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  • harry69in

    now myself i dont class myself as one of these men but i do classmyself as a middle class sex pest... i did one rape but that was an accident... you only live once enjoy it just dont get caught

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    • Unimportant

      Rape by accident?!

      How the hell did that happen? Did you fall into a woman's vagina, penis first?

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    • YORO!

      You only rape once...

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      • LilyAmongTheThorns

        I snorted soda up my nose -.- thanks a lot.

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        • No problem. Lol.

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      • VioletTrees

        Man, if we could get that shit down to a one rape per rapist limit, I think we'd be getting somewhere. Now we just have to figure out how to market that.

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      • harry69in

        rape should be legal, or like a drink drive limit, once a night

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    • Avant-Garde

      O_0 How does someone rape by accident? Is this one of the mysteries man was doomed never to know?

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      • harry69in

        it was after a night out, she said no i said yes, win win

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    • Shackleford96

      Wtf you can't rape someone by accident!

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      • Well I've just been told you can.

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        • Shackleford96

          Oh really?? Please, do elaborate.

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          • harry69in

            "now myself i dont class myself as one of these men but i do classmyself as a middle class sex pest... i did one rape but that was an accident... you only live once enjoy it just dont get caught"

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            • Shackleford96

              Alright smartass XD

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    • kaki

      u raped someone u weird ass son bitch and how the hell was it an accident and your only justification was " you only live once so enjoy it " that is not enjoying it that's making it to where someone will hate even being touched and that's becuz of u, u don't even have the right to live u disguising little freak.

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