Girls: ok to have crush on boy younger than me?

I know usually girls always go after guys who are older than them, but I've been friends with a boy next door for a few years and I'm startingt to realize how sweet, funny, and fun he is to be with compared to the jerk older boyfriend's I've had, plus I can't help notice he's such a cute lookin' little hottie recently. The problem is I'm 18 and my friend will be 14 in three days.

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  • anonymuss

    His parents will shoot you

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  • BoredGuy

    at Kom you are completely insane. I'm 28 now and I wish i was a "victim" of the 18years old chick in my neighborhood when I was 14 !!

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  • jrphotographer

    Whoa the age gap is a little too wide there...

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  • writersblock

    If you think about it your 18 and this kid is only about five years behind you since you said that he just turned 14 it's not wrong. People may find it a little odd now but i would think that when your 26 and he's 22 or 21 people wouldn't think that it's too odd.

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    • davesumba

      there is still a great gap in maturity level at their current age, especially with younger guys. a younger girl has a better chance of being more mature, so it's more acceptable for an older guy to date a younger girl. but for an adult female to date a boy who's barely a teenager and most likely does not have the least bit understanding about what true love is and what it means to be in a good healthy relationship, i would say is not okay.

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  • nobodyspecial

    Hey if you and him are happy together, screw what anyone else thinks!!

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  • emilio

    Your story looks like an exeption. So you know what? Hey your just gona make a young gun happy ahahahah. It's like every 14 years old boy's fantasy. On that part its cool, but in public you should keep discrecy unless he look like hes 16. Cuz people tend to juje... you know what i mean. Just have fun ^^

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  • BoredGuy

    oh god... lucky guy

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  • Smile:)

    Keep being friends with him until he's 20 and ur 24 then that'll be very normal :)

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  • lalas

    Uhm look for a younger kid his way to old lol !

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  • dappled

    It's quite an age gap considering the age you are. As long as you're aware of the issues and how you may be viewed, maybe it's not a problem. After all, in ten years time, that age gap won't be an age gap any more.

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  • cess

    my friend is 17 and wants to date a12 year old boy i'm like COME ON don't be so desperate i'm sure you could find at least 10 guys aged as you in a day who would perfectly fit you

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    • Millie_the_evil_saint

      I don't think it's about being desperate -- it's more of a preference. Maybe she's just...into younger guys?

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  • stayzz0

    This reminds me of the movie Love At First Hiccup. You should watch it, it's about a girl that's a senior in high school getting together with a freshmen boy. Age is just a number and maturity is all that matters.

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  • bleach_baby

    I think this is normal, if not common. when I was at school the best looking girl in my year was going out with a 14 year old (she was 17). It is illegal to sleep with this boy but not to have a relationship.

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  • randomjelly

    Whoa! No! Illegal.
    Plus something is wrong if you are attracted to this child. Try talking to a professional.

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  • Kom

    you are sexual predator and the worst kind. You have been rejected by older boys due to some fault of your own and now to boost your ego you are targetting a youmger more innocent lad. SHAME ON YOU.

    Don't do it, your "VICTEM" is just an ego boost for your failures and inadequecy. Please do yourself a favor and find people your own age group. Thats menas not older ot younger but guys your age then you will be happy and please you are a student so why don't you focus on a healty life style and focus on school life ad studies and sports rather than disrepectng yourself and the young man you want to victemize

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  • 8Serene8

    Ew. Why would you want a guy younger than you? Men are usually more immature than us women as it is. Going even younger is a bad idea. Not only that but he is under age and you can get in big trouble. Plus it's gross.

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  • BajanVictory

    I would say it is kinda OK if you were still 17 cause your an adult and has a crush on a child......that's really weird

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  • 4theloveofdez

    I would wait a few years until he's older and more mature. At his age, I'd you we're to become intimate with him it could lead to legal problems.

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  • combatgal856

    That is a huge age gap, especially since he's under 16 and you are an adult. The age gap would be more acceptable if you where 28 and he was 24. He's abit young but it's fine to think he's cute and like he's personality.

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  • Carolinne

    I would say that it will bring shame to your life. But don't listen to me, wait more answers.

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  • davesumba

    my ex dated a 14 year old when she was 18, she also gave a bj to a 13 year old at 17. i thought she was absolutely disgusting for all of it.

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