Girls, just curios how much do u have to like a guy when...

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To all the girls out there, i'm just wondering how much do you have to like ;) a guy to date him..? Like iv had huge crushes when i was little but don't get the same feelings anymore. I see a guy and think ( yeah maybe i could date him) that's if i feel comfortable enough around him. So my "liking" isn't very high. idk, i just don't seem to get the giddy butterflies anymore :/ so please rate on how you feel about this matter

il date any guy who asks me out and if hes not bad 8
i hardly get the butterflies, so long as he has a nice personality 17
i have to get the butterflies to date a guy 31
i don't have to feel a lot to go out with a guy 6
i don't have to feel anything, so long as he's hot 2
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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    I'm not a girl, but this is my main motivator for dating someone:

    I want to get to know her better.

    You don't have to be in love with someone before you go out. I think it's a lot healthier to get to know someone before you start developing these feelings.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

      If a person's personality intrigues me, I will pursue them. What sucks is that sometimes I find out the hard way that their personality actually sucks dick. And bawlz.

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      • Sig_45
        11 years ago

        lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    mmmmeow

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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    fuck.. i dunno.. depends on the moment if it feels right

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    Hot, fit and intelligent.

    I don't really wanna know anyone better, and honestly don't care for romantic love.

    I'm not a girl, but I thought we're talking about guys here :)

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I dunno. I'v only been on one date, and I really didn't care fot he guy too much, so I guess I really don't have to like him at all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Butterflies. :)

    In high school I tried dating three guys. One was a friend of a friend and although a sweet guy there was nothing there (ended after two weeks).

    The next guy was an acquaintance and he kept asking me out so I said to myself, "What the hell? I've never had a boyfriend." I broke up with him three days later because he was annoying, immature and quite frankly an ass...not to mention he wasn't even remotely attractive. Haha.

    Third guy I actually liked a bit. One day a friend said their friend had a crush on me and later that day he asked me out. I was attracted to him, but after a week he confessed he went to a party and made out with another girl. I decided to give him another chance because we really didn't know each other and he DID confess but guess what? He said he didn't want to hurt me and basically dumped me. Ha! Then during lunch the next day he was with another girl. Total loser, he saved me the trouble.

    Guys I've talked to and have gotten butterflies over were all great guys (and to the ones I've only briefly met/ talked to I'll bet anyone they were too.) I trust my instinct and it has never failed me. I'll wait a lifetime for just one man to give me those flutters.

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