Girls is it normal for you to make this choice ?

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My bestfriend is a 6-7/10 guy ( average face , slim body more on the fit side ) , macho , kind of confident , if he was a girl i would describe him as slutty or horny.hes not that funny ( hes kinda sarcastic though )

Not trying to brag here but many girls rated me as a 9-10 guy ( iam handsome , have a muscular frame and catch girls staring all the time ) but i dont have his attitude. I mean iam really nice to girls , caring , many girls described me as cute and freindly. I wouldn't call myself naughty or any of this.

He doesnt have any problem hooking up whenever , when we are in college or a club girls are always staring at him in a horny way when theoritically they should be staring at me. I saw him jump in bed with a girl just after strong eye contact not a word was even said. I know some will think iam a troll or make jokes about him hypnotizing them ..lol but i have witnessed this and know exactly wat iam talking about.

So girls wats ur prespective and how can u explain this ?

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    I kind of just skimmed over that. Your problem is you don't exude confidence. If you're not giving a girl the obvious "okay" signals, then she's not going to approach you.I have a friend who is considerably less attractive than me (Sorry friend!) and she gets a lot of guys simply because she has the confidence and personality to draw them to her. Between the adorable shy girl sitting at the bar hoping someone will approach her, and her slightly less attractive friend, making eyes at you. You're inclined to say the adorable girl, but in reality the slightly less attractive friend is going to get lucky because she takes the initiative.

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    • thecowboy911
      10 years ago

      Thats true i myself " studied " whom i get attracted to more and i found out that yea looks are important but as long as a girl is not butt ugly and has confidence and a kinda sexy seductive personality then yea i'd totally hook up with her.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    This is probably the personality he reflects. I have seen some pretty troll-like women get men easily because they project an air of confidence. You'll probably find that at clubs he act's confident and sure of himself, probably knows the better lines (you did say he was a slut), he might also be dancing and making the right sort of eye contact. It's quite possible that you're shyer (nice guy) or project shyness. I know I'm reasonably attractive but get overshadowed by my less attractive friends simply because they are louder, bolder and more confident.

    He just has "it" and it's either overshadowing your "it" or perhaps you don't have "it".

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    • thecowboy911
      10 years ago

      Thanks for the input :)
      So ur sayin a loud confident bold personality is more sexy than a personality projecting shyness ?
      I discussed this with some women iam freinds with and said its true but they wont find that person relationship material. Also said that i might be kinda "intimidating " so wat do u think ? And thx for ur time :)

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      • quentari
        10 years ago

        Generally, yes. A shy person probably won't even get noticed compared to a more confident personality. People who project shyness often also project "I'm better than you" "I don't want to be here" and "get away from me" even though they rarely think that. My default expression is "mildly grumpy" so everyone at first glance thinks I'm upset or having a bad time, even though that's not the case. So it's very possible that you seem intimidating to random girls (or you might have those bold stalker eyebrows lol)

        I'd suggest getting a different wingman when you go to clubs, your friend's personality and yours don't match when you're clubbing

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    Lol @ the default mildly grumpy expression i think iam the same.

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