Girls i need your help!

I met this girl some months ago...
She is very beautiful in my eyes, but my friends says that she isnt...
I have been chatting a lot with her (on facebook) but havent really spoke to her in real.

(Met her at a party and i was to shy to talk with her)

I really wanna talk to her face to face and have fun with her, learn her to know and stuff.

So how would u feel if a boy (or girl :) ) asked you out? Please add a comment if you have an idea for me ;)

(Girl) I would love to be asked out. 121
(Girl) I would find that uncomfortable. 14
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Comments ( 32 )
  • NeuroNeptunian

    Just ask her out, if your friends are really your friends, they will get over themselves.

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    • BLAh81

      And otherwise... screw 'em!

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Screwing your friends... Iunno, it's worth a shot.

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        • squeallikeasacofpigs

          It works for me

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  • EAT_IT

    I asked a burger out once. It was so happy that it jumped into my tummy :)

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    • disthing

      A heartwarming and appetising story :*)

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      • EAT_IT

        A delicious tale I hope :)

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  • tori

    Ask her out! Don't let your friends dictate who you should date. Only your heart knows who is right for you.

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  • VioletTrees

    You haven't really given enough context. How do you intend to ask her out? What will you say, and when will you say it? Being asked out can range from very pleasant to threatening, depending on context.

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  • disthing

    How old are you, out of curiosity? It seems like an odd question for someone over 14 to ask (no offence intended).

    It's nice to be asked out by someone who you fancy.

    It can be flattering, but also awkward or even unpleasant to be asked out by someone who you have no interest in.

    If she likes you back then you're good to go, if she doesn't then you may get turned down. Take the risk and cross your fingers.

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  • Youngspiffchickhoee

    Fuck your friends do what makes you happy ! If I was asked out I would respect that guy it takes a lot of balls to ask someone out !

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Personally, I'd be pissed.

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  • kelili

    You should give it a try and in some years you'll learn that friends are not often good advisers when it comes to relationship.

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  • here i am! i shall help, your friends are not going out with this girl, you are, who cares what they think of her, ask her out, girls like that sort of thing, also do you really want every male around after your girl, yes your girl, now go and meet with her!

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  • purplegirl22

    I can't say how many times my "friends" tried to hook me up with a guy and it turned out to be a mistake. Moral of story don't let your friends dictate who you should or should not date, unless they have some legit reasons. Ask her out already! It sounds like you really like her get to know her and see how it goes. Hope this helped!

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  • Avant-Garde

    Ignore your friends since they are being silly and ask her out.

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  • midgy

    Man, ask her out!! your friends are not seeing her - YOU ARE.

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  • o_0

    if she talked to you on chat than probably she wont feel uncomfortable going out with you ... whats better -> try to give a very smart and confident kind of impression and make her feel special and she'll for sure go..!! :)

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    • Jrgina

      Sounds good :)
      She once asked if she looked pretty and then I said no... You are beautiful!

      And she answered: omg youre such a Nice person!

      I have told her a lot of times that she is very beautiful :)

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      • o_0

        ahan... you know what.. girls love to be called beautiful ,they just get flattered ..... but how did it go?? i hope its all done by now ..

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  • ibreathelectric

    Don't listen to your friends. I have an absolutely gorgeous boyfriend and my stupid ass friends tell me he's unattractive CONSTANTLY. It's just cause friends can be severely retarded sometimes. Ignore them. Beauty is subjective. Don't drop it like a bomb on her... at least build up to it. Girls dont like to be caught off guard too much. But heck, life's too short to be shy. Put yourself out there, go for it, ask her out! The worst thing that could happen is for her to say no. Then you go find someone else, simple as that! best of luck man! :)

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    • Jrgina

      Thx Dude(ette) :D

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  • "learn her to know and stuff."

    You make Tommy uneasy.

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  • HisGirl2012

    i wouldn't find it uncomfortable.. itd be adorable!

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  • MissyLeyneous

    Screw your friends, you aren't going to share her with them are you? No? So why does their opinion matter?

    You also sound too young to be on this site. :/

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  • Angel-Ray

    It is your friends opinion wether he finds her attractive or not but his opinions shouldn't affect your feelings.

    Don't be scared to talk to her. Just go up to her and ask her out. Be like," Hey, I was just wondering if you'd like to go out sometime. Wherever you feel like" from there something should happen.

    If you keep dodging her in person and being too afraid to ask her out your chances are slowly fading in the naked eye. You never know what had until it's gone

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  • keeka_renea13

    I would say just go for it and tell her how you feel... but if ur feeling bold lol. If u never have that bold moment, working your way up [almost] always works. Give that a try, and good luck! :)

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  • LookSomeonesWelding

    I've been in the situation where some of my friends constantly made fun of this girl, whom I had a pretty big 'thing' for I suppose but I didn't want to do anything about it in the fear that my friends would transfer this teasing to me.

    regretted not talking to her.

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  • Thx all :D
    Im thinking of asking her out in for a movie in the cinema ;D
    Some comedy :)
    Thanks again!

    Ps. Wise words eat_it and kelili ;D

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      I'm female. And dude just be like hey or whatever. But smile alot dude

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      • disthing

        "dude just be like hey or whatever"...

        Like... totally

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        • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

          LOL

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