Girls: how do you feel about men with lots of female friends?

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I was recently thinking about this topic.
Lots of my friends are girls. About half of them, and I hang out with them regularly.
It's well known that I am a guy who hangs out with various girls a lot.
I'm wondering what other girls that meet me think.
Do they feel jealous of them?
Or does it make them think I must be good with women?

I would like a guy with lots of female friends. 5
I would not like a guy with lots of female friends. 40
I'm indifferent. 22
I'm a guy but wanted to vote. 31
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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    It depends what your relationship is with each of these women. I know my ex dated a friend of his and I wasn't too fond of her hanging out with him.

    If I were just meeting you and I knew nothing about you except this, it wouldn't make me want to be in a relationship with you. I'd friend zone you so hard.

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  • bananapie
    10 years ago

    I find guys like that to be less manly for some reason, dunno why.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    I'm awful ... I have a lot of male friends, though most of them are on the internet. One of them even came to visit for a week this past summer.

    This said, I cringe each time my BF chats with his female associates on-line ... >>

    So ...yeah I'd not be too fond of this. Not unless I knew these girls personally and trusted them.

    I do however think that you have the right to have your friends and you will have to find a girlfriend who is calm and trusting enough to handle it. You too have a responsibility in this to ALWAYS include her when you are to hang with your female friends. Even if you know that your GF might be busy on her end you should ask her if she wishes to come along.

    My Bf has one female friend whom he sends "hugs" and "<3"s too through FB ...and she is lesbian and has been with her own GF for years. Not even I can mind it then.

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  • Ilikecrisps
    10 years ago

    I'm a guy but wanted to vote.

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  • bananaface
    10 years ago

    It makes them seem maturer to me. I can't get on board with the mentality that men and women "can't be *just* friends". I find it pathetic. So, I like people like this.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      then i must be the mostest maturestest persons you knoes =D

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    • jc25
      10 years ago

      If she reminds you of your sister then you can e friends, right?

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  • Aliceee93
    10 years ago

    I don't think I would be jealous because my other half would have to deal with the fact I get on better with male friends.

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  • CrimsonEye
    8 years ago

    I may sound strict but I cannot tolerate this... especially if my man has a history with this girl.

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  • gorillaphant
    10 years ago

    My boyfriend has lots of female friends. However these female friends are the type of girls who only have guys as friends.

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