Girls find me repulsive

I am convinced there is absolutely nothing i can do or say that will ever make a girl really like me or keep her around for longer than a very short amount of time.

I did not always feel this way, but i have come to this conclusion based on a massive amount of rejection and ignores. I mean really, a massive amount.

In the past even when i have worked out in the gym it didnt really change anything (plus im never going to be a big guy, im too damn skinny). Sure i had a little bit more energy to go out and try to socialize and meet more people, but it never really solved any problem. Same with learning about Game and attraction

Theres just something about me, im either too rude, too insensitive, too talkative, not talkative enough, too neurotic, too creepy, too gross, too nice, too mean, too secure, too insecure.....the list goes on

Its to the point where i am just really, really angry, bitter, frustrated, and depressed. Ive struggled with it for a long time with no real success.

I dont know where to go from here. Part of me worries i might someday hurt myself or others as a result.

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  • victorygin

    You're getting frustrated by something that you've decided you can't have. It's a totally pointless way to be.
    So, give up. Forget about girls.
    You're not missing out on anything. Sex? Go to a prostitute. Companionship? Friends.
    (Ok, it's not quite the same, but...you'll live).

    Lots of people are single for long periods of time. But there's no point being frustrated and angry about it. Learn to just not give a fuck, is the best thing.

    To put it another way: You're convinced that you're never going to have a girlfriend. So, that being the case...are you going to be angry and frustrated about it? Or are you going to get on with your life and enjoy yourself regardless?

    Don't get stuck in a feedback loop of being bitter because you're alone, and remaining alone because you're so bitter.

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    • I would love to simply not give a fuck, but i honestly dont know how to do that. Everytime i walk outside and see a female i am reminded

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  • LittleGirlViolentlySodomized

    You sound like Elliot Rogers from PUA-Hate. The site was shut down after the murders and the site poped back up and is now SLUTHATE. Go there and get yourself rated, you can upload pictures without an account and they will rate your looks in the most brutally honest fashion imaginable.

    I highly recommend you start lifting again. Pullups, bench press,deadlifts. Game is good, yes. But if you have Muscle women will see that and it short circuits their brains and you go straight to the vagina from there. Trust me. Start lifting heavy. Canned Salmon is an excellent form of cheap protein with zero Mercury.

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    • I think you not followin what im saying. Ive worked out in the past. It took a lot of effort to make some small gains. But thats beside the point. The point is, even at my best, if im lifting heavy, im still gonna be a thin lightweight guy. So if its physical that gets the ladies then theres a low ceiling for me that i wont ever break through to get the girls i really want. There so many better looking jacked dudes and no matter how good i am i will always be behind most of the other guys,

      So whats the point in even trying anymore. The kind of girls i really want, i will never get.

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      • LittleGirlViolentlySodomized

        If you are skinny then you have an advantage over people with fat bodies. A little gain in Muscle for you will show through the lack of fat on your body displaying a cut body. You have it easy you just aren't trying and give up too easy and if you are under 35 you have absolutely no excuse.

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      • FJK_frm_AK25

        Being skinny ain't ur issue dawg 4 real work on ur personality it helps to have strong 1

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  • ramquait

    be rich attract girls

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  • Greasy_Spics

    It doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you. Your frustrations are a byproduct of caring too much about getting a woman or getting laid and the whole feminist/equality movement. Also don't put pussy on a pedestal. Doesn't make any sense right?

    Treat em like crap and you will get laid.

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  • Whatever25

    Maybe you shouldn't worry that much. You'll find someone, just try to focus on other stuff. Keep going to the gym, read a book, try to paint, whatever that keeps you off of thinking about that. Just be yourself and quit caring about what girls think about you. When a guy is confident, we (as girls) find that very attractive.

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    • Thanks for the comment, but what EXACTLY does "confidence" mean in practical terms ?? I have heard this for years and still dont fully understand it. I know what it means for regular things like for example i am Confident that i can drive to my local grocery store. But thats only because ive done it so many times that its a no brainer nowadays. But if i had to drive 500 miles to some other city i've never been to, sure i can try to do it but theres no way i can be confident about it. I cant say with certainty that i wont get lost or arrive late or get frustrated along the way because i've never done it before !

      I understand why girls like guys who are EXPERIENCED. That makes sense to me. But what about younger guys who don't have much experience? How do i act confident then ? And if you say fake it until you make it, how does that work exactly? If i try to fake knowing how to drive to the city 500 miles away, im just going to make myself look stupid when i inevitably get lost, not to mention that my arrogant attitude thinking i can do it without any problems will probably increase the chances that i get lost

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      • Whatever25

        You should try to stop being so arrogant, but that doesn't mean to change yourself entirely cause we're all a little arrogant sometimes. What I mean by confidence is YOU BEING YOURSELF,

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        • Yeah but what if thats really just who i am. I'm an arrogant, selfish, mean prick.

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          • Whatever25

            Then you'll have to find a girl who is also arrogant, selfish and mean or just the correct person that'll make you change. It's not impossible.

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  • heckleBucker

    It's all about looks. Don't believe these Pick Up Artists. Go to www.sluthate.com

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  • Hog

    Not much you can do about UGLY! Fat, cocksucker, smelly, dumbass all can be fixed. Take a good look in the mirror and see what category you fall into. Good luck. PS hopefully your not a fudge poundee!

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  • 53739

    you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm a virgin too and I know I'm probably going to be a virgin my whole life, and I'm okay with that. Relationships are a two way street, you can't force a girl/woman to want to be in a relationship with you. I'm fat, short, have no friends or social life, no stable job, live with my parents, and am a very boring person. At this point, it's not so much that I crave female companionship anymore, but that I would actually feel sorry for any girl who wanted to get involved in my life. I don't possess any of the qualities that would make anyone of the opposite gender interested in me, and I realize that. Projecting/pretending to be confident can only do so much. Unless and until I can improve myself and show that I have something of value to offer, I understand why every girl would be turned off by me. But I'm okay with that for now. For now I have decided to live for myself, and seek happiness for myself. Everyone deserves individual happiness. There's a saying that if you can't be comfortable being alone, you won't be comfortable being in a relationship either.

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    • i'm not a virgin, i have had a few sexual encounters

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      • 53739

        at least you have me beat in that department. don't feel so negative.

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  • cocknballs

    Do you happen to go to community college in Oregon?

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    • No, i live in Aurora CO and i enjoy going to the movie theater regularly

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  • D'lirium

    Um.. does being ugly REALLY matter..? Like, damn.. Just be who ever you see yourself as you want to please. People be loving you for you for that - JUST FOR THAT - For being who you want to. Don't give a crap about no one else 'cause you already good, better enough than the rest of them shits. Fuck what they say! You know you can do better n' move on without them, SO JUST DO THAT. You know what you capable of. There's so much MORE out there for you - And thinking that you gonna be judged for every little thing you do is OVERSENSTIVE and highly paranoid. SEE? I'm judging. You really have to give a shit what I think though? NO. You should think.. NO YOU SHOULD KNOW that you better than what any are. Just 'cause people can't act appropriate and nice and be calling you ugly, rude, and insecure, don't mean that you should be all judging yourself and shit. Like, c'mon. I see sort of a manipulative here. LIKE, STOP being SOO sorry for yourself. Damn, get the fuck up and stop thinking all these things like there something wrong with you 'cause they're not. You just like creating problems. Alright? YOU KNOW WHAT, you piss me off. "hahaa all those other better looking jacked dudes going to get those girls oh not me haha im just being reminded im pathetic" LIKE SERIOUSLY? Grow the eff up.. LIKE.. Looks aren't everything! Okay. You're acting like you're pathetic. WHEN YOU'RE NOT. So stop or I'm going to slap more sense into you. LIKE, HOW CAN YOU LOOK AT A GIRL AND ACT LIKE SHE NOT INTO YOU WHEN SHE DON'T KNOW YOU? NO, you just CAN'T DO THAT. Like, go talk to her. YOU'RE GOOD ENOUGH. You like to do things like go to the movies. Go with someone. Get a girl. Get some friennds.. You in college? Chill, you either GET IT or you DON'T GET IT. And not every girl gonna have one type. And you don't even know who your love gonna be. ENJOY LIFE WHILE Y'HAV IT.

    ALSO, STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND ACTIN' LIKE YOU GOTTA BE THE 'BEST' FOR GIRLS. You're fk'n sexy SO DON'T BE TALKIN' LIKE YOU'RE PATHETIC WHEN YOU'RE EVERYTHING BUT THAT. OKAY? SHEESH. SO MANI- GOSH I'M JUST TIRED JUST SO TIRED. OKAY IF I KNEW YOU I BE SLAPPIN' YOU. CH. WHAT YOU DOING HERE ON IIN? LIKE GO. YEAH. GO AND GET OUT. PLEASE.

    AND JUST CAUSE YOU CAN'T GET A GIRL DON'T MEAN THAT YOU CAN'T LIVE AS YOU PLEASE AS YOU WILL. A GIRL OR SOME ONE ELSE WILL C'MON LATER IN YOUR LIFE AND LOVE YOU FOR YOU. THAT'S TRUE LOVE - WHEN SOMEONE LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.

    So do your own thing, and someone will come by and love you for you, who you are inside. <3

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